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Abigail Myers
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My fiance recently expressed he has contemplated suicide and has left work to drive around and thought about hitting…

My fiance recently expressed he has contemplated suicide and has left work to drive around and thought about hitting people straight on to end his life... He told me his pay was short because of this and that he often lied. He claimed he also lied about using money to buy lunch at work instead of packing (which I knew but figured he just wasn't eating) I'm really concerned. Him being 20 I don't know if I should call a hospital or call police and get him help... I am so torn because we are expecting our first baby boy together August 2nd.... I don't want to be telling my son that his father killed himself because times were tough with money.... I can't do this without him and love him dearly. I'm so fearful. Although he lied I'm more torn he would think about ending his life and leaving behind the baby boy we plan to bring in this life... Someone please help. Advice, what I should do, how I can get him help... I love him with all my heart. I just want him safe ❤

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missing563user

missing563user

Take him to a doctor, get him with a therapist, encourage him to talk about it and maybe try medication if that's a good choice for him according to his doctor, don't leave him alone, remind him daily how much he is loved and wanted and important, never dare him to do it or shame him or put guilt on him or be angry about it, if you are part of a church go with him and talk to a minister or other trusted adult male that can mentor and encourage him, let him know how brave he is for coming to you with this and be supportive of him and let him know he can beat these feelings. The fact that he told you means he wants to LIVE but is crying out for someone to understand what he's going through

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sherrynygirl

sherry S

drive him to the hospital, while he sits in waiting room ask to speak to a Supervisor and say he needs a psych evaluation tell your man ,sometimes we all need extra help dealing with issues inside ourselves, good luck and hope he stays safe ♡

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deleted-user

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@pure_imagination, you should get him help, he's not okay emotionally and he's not stable, I know it's hard, but my baby's dad was the same way.

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rmreed

RachelВ ожидании первенца

Did you do anything yet?? let me know if you need me to come over.

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rose.grossnickle

ArielМама дочки-младенца

if he's home with you right now I would call the Dr or drive him to the hospital to get some help. if he's not living with you then call the police for a well fare check.

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sk216

EmmaМама дочки-младенца

take him to the hospital they'll do a psych evaluation

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pure_imagination

Abigail MyersВ ожидании первенца

thank you @srollins16

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midwestgirl16

TashaМама сына (1 год), беременна (26 нед.)

you have to do whats best for your baby. get him help its better to do so then risk not having a father for your child. Hope the best for your family

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Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your…

@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.