Abigail Myers
pure_imagination
Abigail Myers·Мама сына (9 лет)

My fiance recently expressed he has contemplated suicide and has left work to drive around and thought about hitting people straight on to end his life... He told me his pay was short because of this and that he often lied. He claimed he also lied about using money to buy lunch at work instead of packing (which I knew but figured he just wasn't eating) I'm really concerned. Him being 20 I don't know if I should call a hospital or call police and get him help... I am so torn because we are expecting our first baby boy together August 2nd.... I don't want to be telling my son that his father killed himself because times were tough with money.... I can't do this without him and love him dearly. I'm so fearful. Although he lied I'm more torn he would think about ending his life and leaving behind the baby boy we plan to bring in this life... Someone please help. Advice, what I should do, how I can get him help... I love him with all my heart. I just want him safe ❤

09.07.2016
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missing563user

Take him to a doctor, get him with a therapist, encourage him to talk about it and maybe try medication if that's a good choice for him according to his doctor, don't leave him alone, remind him daily how much he is loved and wanted and important, never dare him to do it or shame him or put guilt on him or be angry about it, if you are part of a church go with him and talk to a minister or other trusted adult male that can mentor and encourage him, let him know how brave he is for coming to you with this and be supportive of him and let him know he can beat these feelings. The fact that he told you means he wants to LIVE but is crying out for someone to understand what he's going through

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sherrynygirl

drive him to the hospital, while he sits in waiting room ask to speak to a Supervisor and say he needs a psych evaluation tell your man ,sometimes we all need extra help dealing with issues inside ourselves, good luck and hope he stays safe ♡

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@pure_imagination, you should get him help, he's not okay emotionally and he's not stable, I know it's hard, but my baby's dad was the same way.

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rmreed
Rachel·Мама двоих (6 лет, 8 лет)

Did you do anything yet?? let me know if you need me to come over.

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rose.grossnickle
Ariel·Мама дочки (9 лет)

if he's home with you right now I would call the Dr or drive him to the hospital to get some help. if he's not living with you then call the police for a well fare check.

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sk216
Emma·Мама дочки (9 лет)

take him to the hospital they'll do a psych evaluation

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nevergivingupgivens

@pure_imagination, I sent you a message

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nevergivingupgivens

Message me girly.

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pure_imagination
Abigail Myers·Мама сына (9 лет)

thank you @srollins16

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midwestgirl16
Tasha·Мама троих детей

you have to do whats best for your baby. get him help its better to do so then risk not having a father for your child. Hope the best for your family

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