I actually feel so lost and alone during my pregnancy if it wasn't for my mum I think my depression would be back to its full height! My OH always has an excuse when I ask to see him recently we only have 3Weeks till our sons here it really shouldn't be like this... Sorry just needed to let it out. Xx
@sensie, that's lovely! Thank you! :) It's bloody hard! But we do it for our babies! It sounds crazy but the thing that's got me through it all is talking to my bump and then feeling him move! There's a baby in there, a real baby and we're doing it for them! They need us to be strong and we're doing a good job already even if it doesn't feel like it!!x
@daniluvsdis, your really strong to be going through all of that moving to a new city ❤️your one tough mumma I would be proud to call you my mum anyday and thank you, your right my little one will be here in 3weeks and he's the most important person to me so staying strong for him isn't a choice thank you❤️xx
@sensie, just try to be strong and focus on the positive things! Think about how your gonna have your little one soon and then you'll not worry about other things! My pregnancy has been an awful experience with my OH. Ours was unplanned, I'd just moved to a new city for him, my family and friends live 4/5 hours away so I know how you feel when you say you feel lonely! I've practically gone through this on my own too! My OH rejected it, he said he didn't want it, he didn't get excited, came to hardly any appointments, didn't buy anything or share in the experience of buying things, didn't want to talk about it, we argued so much about it all, we argued if I mentioned the baby he didn't wanna hear nothing about it! It almost broke us up! If we didn't live so far apart if have moved out ages ago! It's only the last 2/3 maybe 4 weeks that he's been a bit more accepting and supportive! That he's shown he's there for us! And there's still a part of me that's worried he won't cope and he'll go back to his old self! But we've just gotta see! Try to be strong, your not on your own and you can do it!! :) xx
@h04, yeah your right I just thought it would bring people closer together not further apart x my pregnancy wasn't planned but I love my son I just don't think my OH does xx
Be strong, pregnancy isn't always fluffy clouds and smiles. If it helps lots of people feel alone , including me, they just don't admit it. You are stronger than u think x