Question: How long did it take you to have sex with you partner after birth? Did you feel "loose" or anything? that's my biggest fear...I didn't tear at all so I just stretched, and I don't want to be really loose the first time him and I get intimate.
I waited 7ish or 8ish weeks....no your body heals back up so you're not loose
u won't feel lose , but it might not be the best to do it so soon. u can always try but if it's not comfy then stop
that's the thing I'm less than 2 weeks PP and completely healed no bleeding. but I don't want to try until I know I won't feel loose. and really I could all be in my head @mrsmord @karkster420
My husband and I waited 4 weeks. I had 2nd degree tearing and lots of stitches so my first time I actually felt really tight up there. it felt like the stitches sewed me shut up there and my husband couldn't get in all the way lol so we took it slow. made it more passionate and made us both appreciate the other person. you'll know when you feel ready
He had no complaints but I made him wait the full six weeks
ur vagina is one big muscle so even if u delivered a baby it goes back to what it was ( it won't be tight like u were in the past but kegels help ) but itll be just as good.
but did you feel like you weren't tight enough for his satisfaction? that's my worry @abeals04
I tore only a little with no stitches and it felt like a lot of pressure
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
TWW!!
2dpo and on the tww journey. Anyone on the same dpo or close? Haven't decided if I will test at 12dpo or just wait and see if she shows up!!

I will be 41 :/
AF due 29th, anyone else?
Hi all AF is due 29th Sept for me feels like forever away. Has anyone tested yet or when do you plan on testing x
anytime good luck 😉