Question: How long did it take you to have sex with you partner after birth? Did you feel "loose" or…

I tore only a little with no stitches and it felt like a lot of pressure

but did you feel like you weren't tight enough for his satisfaction? that's my worry @abeals04

ur vagina is one big muscle so even if u delivered a baby it goes back to what it was ( it won't be tight like u were in the past but kegels help ) but itll be just as good.

also I waited 7 weeks

He had no complaints but I made him wait the full six weeks

My husband and I waited 4 weeks. I had 2nd degree tearing and lots of stitches so my first time I actually felt really tight up there. it felt like the stitches sewed me shut up there and my husband couldn't get in all the way lol so we took it slow. made it more passionate and made us both appreciate the other person. you'll know when you feel ready

that's the thing I'm less than 2 weeks PP and completely healed no bleeding. but I don't want to try until I know I won't feel loose. and really I could all be in my head @mrsmord @karkster420

u won't feel lose , but it might not be the best to do it so soon. u can always try but if it's not comfy then stop

I waited 7ish or 8ish weeks....no your body heals back up so you're not loose

thanks for the advice:) @mrsmord

anytime good luck 😉