So I babysit 2 boys, one is 4 and the other one is 1.. since the 4 year old was small, everyone (even nurses) has told his mom that there is something wrong with him, because he cannot stay calm whatsoever, he doesn't hear when people are talking to him, and he doesn't know how to communicate with people. & now, his 1 year old brother acts similar. When he's sitting or laying down, he is shaking and moving his legs like crazy, like he never stops doing that and I tried holding them down at first cause I thought maybe he was just scared and that's why he was doing that but he got so frustrated and started throwing his hands and head around like crazy. Even when he's sleeping, he doesnt't ever stop shaking/moving his legs or arms. & I know that's not right. & his older brother is so mean to him. I can't leave him unattended to even use the restroom because I've caught him put a blanket over his head to stop him from breathing, covering his mouth and nose so he can't breathe, and his mom says that at home she's caught him putting pillows over his face, hitting him really hard, pushing him so rough against the floor... and it frustrates me because I know that both boys really need to get checked, but according to their mom, "they're fine and that's how normal kids are"..just thought I'd put it out here and see what you guys think about this.
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And for the record those are signs of Autism because they have different stages! And even though she wasn't a drug user drugs can still cause mental health problems in babies and children down the line! Look it up and you will see! But it sounds like they have early signs of Autism! @lakilucid
She said did she use drugs?! Not accusing her of doing them, you misunderstood her comment! @lakilucid
ctfu my mom was a piece of shit yet your 5 kids decided to self terminate themselves rather then be stuck with you for the rest of their lives because they didn't want to live with your miserable ass . And the only reason why your child is probably here is because by the time they realized who you were it was too late @lakilucid . Fuck you and your rotten ass insides you ditzy looking ass broad
actually yes it does make both of your mother pieces of literal human shit. knowing they had a defenseless child inside them and choosing to do drugs. just like my mother is a piece of shit for doing it while I was a teen and making me take care of her. there's no excuse.
@jozell01, bitch bring it. I'm not the one that did drugs with my child like your piece of shit mother. that makes her a piece of shit. you volunteered that info. not anyone else. take several seats.
actually its a good question @lakilucid because a lot of the time that does happen when drugs are used during pregnancy. just like @jozell01 mother, mine did drugs with me and I was the same exact way. doesn't mean her or my mother was a POS.
so now my mother was a piece of shit ? You are too funny , all i did was give my input in the conversation that contained " mixed company " . Not once did i try to bash anyone all i did was ask a question . You are not ever the person who wrote this post therefore you responding to me AFTER @ashleynicole did was irrelevant . We are all mothers who have our individual battles so who are you to target me ? So please stop coming for me when I definitely didn't send for you before i hurt your feelings thank you 😁 @lakilucid
the fact you used the phrase " girl bye" shows your maturity level. there are certain things you do not ask people in mixed company. just because you mother was a pos, doesn't mean everyone is.
ctfu girl bye . not once did I call her a junkie nor a crack head , i just asked a simple question . @lakilucid
@jozell01, wow... rude much? not everything is due to drug use. things like this are genetic.
my cousins sister in law has 2 boys who you can clearly tell have it. bc we can compare them to my nephew who was diagnosed and they say no. if I would notice any signs with my kids I'd take action right away.
that's sad that she says it's normal, apparently that's not norml at all, you should have a serious conversation with her because those kids need to be seen by dr,
Yeah, a lot of people say it could be autism, but she doesn't want to accept it
@lucyyxoxo_ & no she didn't @jozell01
did she use drugs while pregnant with them ? my mom used drugs with me and i use to act that way and still sometime had leg tremors until i was12
signs of autism? it's not good on the kids when parents are in denial. it can only get worse :/
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