I'm sick and tired of women who aren't moms yet bashing young moms. It's honestly so stupid how they always bring up the "you won't be able to go to college, parties, life is not the same, you can't have a decent job". First of all, a baby will never ever stop you from achieving your goals, in my case my son pushed me to do better and strive for bigger things! A baby won't stop you from getting a job.. That's silly. You can work from home, there's day cares and some people have family who have no problem looking out for their little ones. You can go to college with no problem! It might be harder but it's nothing a person is not able to handle. All the bashing needs to stop.. It's seriously so stupid. No one is wasting their years by being a 'young' mom.. You can do all the things you want to do if you want, don't make your child an excuse. And if you're not a mom yet GOOD FOR YOU! Live your life and stop worrying about others. Mind your business.
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I wish somebody would tell me that. I got pregnant right after high school and started college 9.5 months pregnant. I will be graduating with a medical degree this year! If anything my son pushed me to it! I'm planning on more kids and I am not doing pushing myself! If someone wants it they'll do it. There seriously is like no girls from my high school with kids or even married majority of them are either stuck home or in college. And you know that's fine. But I'm happily spending my days with my child and continuing my education. People these days.
People like to down people a lot. I have 3 kids (Had twins) and I am 19 and I will achieve all the goals and my kids and husband will be right by my side. Kids don't stop you from doing anything, you have to work your way around it. And saying we wont get to life life young with kids is bull shit. Im living the life, still having fun with my kids. Motherhood is a blessing and I am grateful for my kids and wouldn't have it any other way.