so finally I convicted my husband (and myself) it was okay to have sex.. we haven't in a very long time because it was painful for me.. we changed it up this time and tried something different and I am glad we did ;) that's probably the last time he will have sex with me before we meet greyson because he has constantly asked me since, "are you okay? do you feel different? did I hurt you? are you having contractions? you aren't bleeding are you?" I just giggled and told him no that I'm fine. he is/was so concerned. but finally sleeping. lol!