Dude, it's not good enough to say "oh, that's just how I am, I'm an asshole". Have some fucking respect. Your jokes are not funny. The second time you met me (and I'm 7.5mos pregnant) you told me I should go on a diet because I made a joke to my SO about my butt. You need a fucking wake-up call. That's not okay to tell anyone, much less me. I don't like your attitude, I don't like your blatant disrespect of other people, I don't like the way you treat your wife, and I don't like that everyone around you just thinks it's okay for you to act this way. You'd better hope to god you pay my SO his $200 back, or there will definitely be hell to fucking pay.