Sometimes I can NOT stand my fiancé. I've been trying to show him a house for rent that's been on watch for us because it's my dream home. I love everything about it & when I tried to show him he just brushes it off and tells the dogs "Let's go to bed" & I'm laid here on the couch. We've not argued all day. He was fine before he went to bed and now all of a sudden he wants to ignore somebody and act like I haven't said anything. I've literately had to yell to get his attention because he's been into that damn phone ever since we got back home. I don't know how much more I can take with him, and it's really making me question if I do in fact want to marry him 😥.
Sorry it's so long you guys. I needed to rant.
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It makes matters worse when I tell him go for a ride and give me some time to think about things, he tells me he's not leaving hell do what he wants too. @momof5222
oh well let his ass sleep in his jeep then maybe you can get a moment of peace. You have to rise up and be strong for you!
Everytime I tell him we need to take a break, see where we are at. He goes "I have no where to go, I'll sleep in my jeep I guess" he freaking guilt trips me. @momof5222
yeah in my experience and two failed marriages tells me that men like that don't change they just get worse. That's abuse honey you don't deserve that
He just walked out here and literally cussed me out for staying out in the living. He said "I'm going the fuck to bed I'm not waiting all night for you."
your welcome, it really helped me and since then I've married a man that caters to my language like a pro ALL the time. Never failing.
I just might have to go check that book out :). Thank you so much!!!!
I'm So sorry you have to deal with that. It's the absolute worst feeling to be ignored. Honestly I went through this with someone and that is when I learned that all people have love language's. Things that they NEED from someone else to feel loved and things what they need to DO For the other person to feel like your giving real love. There is a book called love language's and it's def worth the read. once I learned my own I knew what I couldn't settle for. You are worth so much more. And someone out there will speak your language if it's not this man. Good luck ;)
He keeps telling me when he's at work "I can't wait to have a new house, to raise our family in" so when I find a home you blow it off and suddenly go to bed? Wtf. It actually hurt my feelings. I'm waiting to see if he comes back out the room to get me to come to bed or not. @10yearslater0205
Good question .. Also does he want to?? I'm thinking he wouldn't blow that subject off ?
He has his mood swings like every guy lol. But today he's horrible. I mean absolutely horrible. He's picking at me knowing I feel like hell & he will not stop. He made me get dressed and go with him to the store. He's just being a total ass today 😩. @dawnrose
has he always been this way? or just when you got pregnant?
I agree if he threatened to sleep in his jeep say ok.. Seems like he's being a jerk right now .. Maybe sleep on the couch tonight 🙈