Of course today's our hospital tour and this dude is playing games and has an attitude with me for…
Of course today's our hospital tour and this dude is playing games and has an attitude with me for simply asking what time he wants to go over there since neither of us are familiar with how this works and I'm not going to be running through the doors of the hospital at 4:00 on the dot breaking my neck to figure it out just because that's what time it starts. 😪😓 smh with the way he's been acting for the past few months I'm so close to just giving up on him and us and just being a single mother and I honestly have zero issue with that because everyone and everything's 100x more important to him than anything for the baby or even being a stable support for me. He hasn't helped me buy or do anything, constantly bashes any ideas I have, only goes to appointments when HE feels like it (and has an attitude when he does come) then gets mad if he misses something or if I don't tell him everything when he doesn't come and I don't have the time, tolerance, or patience anymore. I've been trying to hold what we have together because of my feelings for him and for babygirl's sake of having mommy and daddy and whatnot, but I'm not even getting met halfway so I don't see the point in trying anymore with this kid.
Carolina Cobian·
Мама двоих (1 год, 9 лет), ждёт третьего
Oh hun. Im really sorry to know what youre going through. We can only give give you our opinion but its ultimately your choice. Things are obviously not working out for you guys as a couple at the time. It kinda sucks that he's not in the same boat as you. You should really give it some serious thought NOW before the baby is here. Some women often make the mistake of thinking that OH WHEN THE BABY GETS HERE, HE WILL PROBABLY CHANGE very few times does that happen. Think about yourself. You dont need this extra stress and drama right now.
Jenn Conyers·
Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (25 нед.)
@carolina71416, thanks Hun ❤️ I'm totally just going to think about the baby and myself right now because I don't need to deal with him, I'd love for him to be more involved and I give him every opportunity to but he's just in his own world and expects me to not leave because I haven't yet and I'm always forgiving him and cordial and friendly with him in the past when we've taken breaks and whatnot but this time around I'm just over dealing with him anymore.
Bri·
Мама двоих (младенец)
my SO wasn't too involved in my pregnancy but just remember this saying "a woman becomes a mother when she discovers she's pregnant, a man becomes a father when he sees his baby". the moment my SO saw our son for the first time he fell in love. he's super involved and is a wonderful father.