I'm really debating on having my tubes tied after my baby is here. I pretty positive I don't want anymore kids and I…

I'm really debating on having my tubes tied after my baby is here. I pretty positive I don't want anymore kids and I know my BF doesn't! But part of me kind of wants to leave that window open just Incase later on I decide I want more. I'm just so fricking scared of getting pregnant right away after and I don't want that! I got pregnant on birth control😶 the shot is out and I don't want any of them they insert into you. I kind of want my BF to have a vasectomy he knows he's done with having kids this will be his 3rd and it's my first I think it's only fair that he does, especially because a vasectomy is an office procedure. I will have just carried a baby 9 months gave birth and then I'm suppose to go under the knife and get my tubes tied?! Have to heal from that while caring for a newborn. What do you ladies think?

girl. i am in the same boat!! exaclty. my man has 3 kids and this my forst and i keep saying only!! except my man is going to get a vasectomy! we go threw all the child barring pain we should not have to go threw more to get pur tubes tied. plus a vasectomy is reversible. getting your tubes tied isnt. make him do it! my dad says ita barley even painful too!

Jess29.06.2016

@madison1497, men are so anti any pain especially to their man parts lol I really do need to talk to him about it. I just have a feeling he's going to be like yeah right. 🙄 then he can have a 4th kid too if he won't. I have had 2 colposcopies and a uterus biopsy... A vasectomy can't be any worse then a uterus biopsy those are not pleasant 😶 but you have cramping for a day and that's it! One of my colposcopies the dr did it so hard that I was in terrible pain and bled the next day and had to go to the ER so he can effing man up and have a vasectomy!! @madison1497

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