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jessnichole
jessnichole
Мама дочки (4 года), беременна (30 нед.)

I keep second guessing myself, I know I'm done having kids after this one. He is my second but first boy. I don't know…

I keep second guessing myself, I know I'm done having kids after this one. He is my second but first boy. I don't know if I should go through getting my tubes tied or not?? it just seems so invasive, unnatural and permanent! I don't know what to do??

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azmommy85

🎀 Alicia 🎀

В ожидании первенца

My fiance is going a vasectomy after I'm done with this pregnancy. We are both 100% sure we are done with kids. (This will be my 3rd and his 2nd) Just be 100% sure you're done having kids before doing anything that'll make you not be able to get pregnant again.

mila05052016

nina

Мама сына (2 года)

@new_mami87, I will not try anything that would stay inside my uterus or vagina, that freaked me out every time the doctor suggested the ring or mirena. I can't even wear tampons unless I need to.

mila05052016

nina

Мама сына (2 года)

yes mine was covered 100% @jessnichole

sarabrewer04

sarabrewer04

Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

I'm on my fourth and at first I was dead set on getting my tubes tied then I started feeling depressed every time I would think about it so we have decided not to. we will just find other ways to prevent pregnancy again.

new_mami87

new_mami87

В ожидании первенца

My gal pal in college had the nuva ring and it would come off on her "partner" so that was a little concerning. I have a coworker that had Mirena but because of her body it implanted into her incorrectly and hurt her and her hubby was able to feel it poke him. My boss has it and loves it. I want to try after baby comes next year. What about the reg. condoms with the assistance of spermicide lubricant?

jessnichole

jessnichole

Мама дочки (4 года), беременна (30 нед.)

@mila05052016, that's not too bad. I'll ask about that. Will insurance cover it?

mila05052016

nina

Мама сына (2 года)

I had it for a year and the only side effect I had was spotting for the first couple of months. everyone reacts differently but I would suggest you do some research and ask tons of questions before. personally I like it.

jessnichole

jessnichole

Мама дочки (4 года), беременна (30 нед.)

@mila05052016, I haven't tried the implant I am a little curious about it

jessnichole

jessnichole

Мама дочки (4 года), беременна (30 нед.)

Tried depo shot @new_mami87 was on it over a year and it made me sick too, plus its not good for long term use no BC really is and nuva ring freaks me out.

mila05052016

nina

Мама сына (2 года)

have you tried the implant?

blessedw7

💋Melissa💋

Многодетная мама (7 детей)

@jessnichole PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE DON'T TIE UR TUBES I'VE BEEN THERE... GO TO MY PROFILE I HAVE MY TUBES TIDE TUBAL REVERSAL STORY ON THERE.. ANY QUESTIONS HIT ME UP

adaline0914

Savanah

Мама дочки-младенца

If you get it checked on every couple months than it SHOULD be fine. That's weird tho :/

new_mami87

new_mami87

В ожидании первенца

What about depo shot or nuva ring?

jessnichole

jessnichole

Мама дочки (4 года), беременна (30 нед.)

@adaline0914, one of my friends got pelvic inflammatory disease and I decided against that, but it would be good since there are no hormones.

adaline0914

Savanah

Мама дочки-младенца

You should do the mirena for BC. It's non hormonal so you shouldn't get sick from it

jessnichole

jessnichole

Мама дочки (4 года), беременна (30 нед.)

birth control**

jessnichole

jessnichole

Мама дочки (4 года), беременна (30 нед.)

@tae23, tried the north control thing for a while after I had my daughter and stayed sick almost constantly. I don't want an IUD for sure. I may just be careful not to get pregnant again but I may accidentally get pregnant that way.

missing144user

missing144user

Мама сына-младенца

just do birth control or natural family planning if you're unsure.

jessnichole

jessnichole

Мама дочки (4 года), беременна (30 нед.)

@tae23, the procedure itself scares me. I know 2 kids are plenty for me and my husband. I might not do it, my Dr even tried talking me out of it.

hippiegardenmama

Amanda

Мама двоих (младенец)

@tae23, I'm with you-you have to be 100% it's what you want forever.

missing144user

missing144user

Мама сына-младенца

if Youre unsure don't do it.

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

I don't think she gets it.

I don't think she gets it. I swear sometimes I just need to renew my policy to not look at the comments in Facebook. I never used to. I don't know why I started. But the ignorance is real.