I keep second guessing myself, I know I'm done having kids after this one. He is my second but first boy. I don't know if I should go through getting my tubes tied or not?? it just seems so invasive, unnatural and permanent! I don't know what to do??
@new_mami87, I will not try anything that would stay inside my uterus or vagina, that freaked me out every time the doctor suggested the ring or mirena. I can't even wear tampons unless I need to.
I'm on my fourth and at first I was dead set on getting my tubes tied then I started feeling depressed every time I would think about it so we have decided not to. we will just find other ways to prevent pregnancy again.
My gal pal in college had the nuva ring and it would come off on her "partner" so that was a little concerning. I have a coworker that had Mirena but because of her body it implanted into her incorrectly and hurt her and her hubby was able to feel it poke him. My boss has it and loves it. I want to try after baby comes next year. What about the reg. condoms with the assistance of spermicide lubricant?
@mila05052016, that's not too bad. I'll ask about that. Will insurance cover it?
I had it for a year and the only side effect I had was spotting for the first couple of months. everyone reacts differently but I would suggest you do some research and ask tons of questions before. personally I like it.
@mila05052016, I haven't tried the implant I am a little curious about it
Tried depo shot @new_mami87 was on it over a year and it made me sick too, plus its not good for long term use no BC really is and nuva ring freaks me out.
@jessnichole PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE DON'T TIE UR TUBES I'VE BEEN THERE... GO TO MY PROFILE I HAVE MY TUBES TIDE TUBAL REVERSAL STORY ON THERE.. ANY QUESTIONS HIT ME UP
If you get it checked on every couple months than it SHOULD be fine. That's weird tho :/
@adaline0914, one of my friends got pelvic inflammatory disease and I decided against that, but it would be good since there are no hormones.
You should do the mirena for BC. It's non hormonal so you shouldn't get sick from it
@tae23, tried the north control thing for a while after I had my daughter and stayed sick almost constantly. I don't want an IUD for sure. I may just be careful not to get pregnant again but I may accidentally get pregnant that way.
just do birth control or natural family planning if you're unsure.
@tae23, the procedure itself scares me. I know 2 kids are plenty for me and my husband. I might not do it, my Dr even tried talking me out of it.
@tae23, I'm with you-you have to be 100% it's what you want forever.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
TWW!!
2dpo and on the tww journey. Anyone on the same dpo or close? Haven't decided if I will test at 12dpo or just wait and see if she shows up!!

I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
My fiance is going a vasectomy after I'm done with this pregnancy. We are both 100% sure we are done with kids. (This will be my 3rd and his 2nd) Just be 100% sure you're done having kids before doing anything that'll make you not be able to get pregnant again.