that's what my mom and sister want me to do is come stay with one of them. his dad isn't the main problem though. our main problem is him buying vehicles that need work done knowing that were about to have a baby. he makes me feel like neither me or his daughter are important, more like the cars are more important then we are.

I totally understand. Your husband might be acting that way because of the stress of living with his father. Sometimes that's difficult enough and maybe he's stressing him out. No excuse but possible. Could u get away to go visit somewhere and let him deal with it? Maybe he'll realize what he's doing

the only thing "dangerous" about it is his dad isn't kid-friendly. we're living with him at the moment. for some reason my husband is being controlling. I've already been told that our daughter will be here soon, and he's not trying to help me with anything. (bill wise) I'm trying to fight it's just hard when I have my family telling me to leave.... @morganmommy79

I fought long and hard with my ex and we have two kids together. I finally left and it's been very hard. Since then I've remarried and now I'm pregnant again. It's been hard because the new guy has to adjust to the kids and the ex drama but my best advice is if he's NOT abusive in anyway Try to work it out for the sake of your baby. It's so hard sharing your kids and fighting with exes when they move on to another woman. It's a lot of stress. I'm very happy now in my marriage but I feel guilty for not trying harder in my last marriage for my kids. I can look back now and see what I did wrong too. But anyway, if you are in a dangerous place with him get out! Otherwise it can prolly be worked out. :)