So I love waking up with my baby throughout the night believe it or not. I'm trying to cherish every moment with him because I'm pretty sure he is our last 😞 well last night I was just DONE. Overly exhausted. I feel like im a single mom. My husband is only home at nights, and when he is here he's watching tv.. my husband runs the company (which don't get me wrong is a big task!) all day long every day including weekends. I'm over here taking care of a 4yo, 3yo, 2yo, and 3 week old by myself 24/7. I. Don't. Get. Rest. I just hit zombie mode with a vengeance last night.. I asked my husband to just take Porter (our three week old) while he watched his tv so I could get some sleep. His response was "REALLY?" Like yes F*cker! REALLY. Man I had to keep myself from smacking him, and then the thought of shoving a tampon in his mouth while he snored away later on was very appealing. This Morning like every morning he complained to me how tired he is. So irritating because he gets full nights of sleep every single night.. He is a good man and takes care of his family, he really is a dumbass sometimes. I had to vent, sorry.
men are stupid and selfish. and by hell if I would be giving him a "release". he can bloody deal.
mine is the same way. yesterday morning my contractions started getting really painful and close, meds aren't slowing labor and he decided it was a good idea to blame me for something our daughter did then when I said I'm done. he says " you're the idiot who had kids at 20". I threw a shoe at his head. he's the one that PUT the babies there ad refuses to help even though he promised he would. he also throws it in my face that he's the only one working and that I can't get a job and he's soooo tired and in pain from walking to work at Safeway. like I'm sorry im pregnant and in labor with your child. please continue to bitch at me. pisses me off.
Thanks ❤️ some guys really just don't get it. He acts like our kids are my responsibility, and when he does end up helping me he such a martyr about it. When I was in labor in the hospital he was complaining about how tired he was.. Like always. Every child we've had he has slept through my entire labors even whenever I didn't have an epidural and needed support. After our babies were born he would leave me in the room alone to go celebrate with his friends and what not.. Our babies all went to NICU right away from being premature, so I'd just sit there after giving birth alone and sad. In The hospital he expected me to give him a "release" so he would be less stressed out.. This has happened every time. Im not given my allotted time to heal after birth ever. Our income is our company, he could give himself a week off after each time to help me, but he never does.. So much more I could go on about him and the dumb shit that he does, but I don't want to make him look like a horrible man because he really isn't.
Ugh. What the fuck. I don't get how men don't see that raisin a kid is hard ESPECIALLY 4!!! 😮 I'm so sorry ❤️💕❤️💕
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Transgender children
So I just learned that in my kids school district (my kids aren't in school yet my oldest will be starting kindergarten next September) there are twin boys who identify as girls. They are 5 years old. What's your opinions on this matter given they are 5!!! I don't believe that at that age they really understand the whole thing. So the entire school had to take a course on how to handle transgender children. For example they can't say girls go this or boys do that. What are...
Science!
My friend posted this on facebook last night and said her kids were asleep within minutes. It's a song that scientists created to help people fall asleep. I was skeptical but I thought what the hay, I'll try it out. I didn't bank on Dh falling asleep, but both him and lo were asleep by minute 2. And lo slept six straight hours. ?
Starting TWW. Anyone else?
I had a stillborn daughter at 38 weeks this passed Nov. This is my second month ttc. (Last month we only tried for like two weeks though). My last and only pregnancy, I got pregnant the first month of ttc so I hope it's quick this time again.
"release" a frying pan upside his head maybe. XD