Having a hard day. I'm just so annoyed with my mother. She seems to have bi respect for my marriage. She's constantly…

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I grew up in a Messianic (Christian) Jewish congregation and was raised Christian. I agree with aspects of both faiths. My husband was raised catholic and it made him not want anything to do with church so I got to choice what faith our children are also when we married it was a fight with my grandmother but she got over it. Tell your mom it's not her life or decision and to back off.

well you need to make decisions for yourself your a grown woman , if she can decide what religion she wanna be then u can decide who to be with . love is love and you can't help who u fall for . and someone who denies the Holocaust is a sick mother fucker and that should bother her , not someone who helps and is kindd

@nygirl3rdbabymiami, Bacon is my staple lol. its almost all I crave. everything needs Bacon including ice cream haha. but yes I totally agree. my moms just a irritating in piece of work

well your a grown woman and if that's the man you choose, she needs to get over it ! I don't let others opinions mean anything, no one pays my bills or busts my ass for my sons or works the 60hrs,So I don't care what my mom or older sisters think,haha we are all different people.Puerto Rican men are very sweet, never have to ask twice to do laundry or clean we are the same way ♡and who knew pork was actually good but not better than a steak ;)

@nygirl3rdbabymiami, my husbands Puerto rican too lol. I love him to death so her oppiniom doesn't bother me its just her needing to force herself into my life with her opinion that's seriously irritating

@mrsmord I know. I said the same to her but she seems to want to make her own rules. I haven't been religious for years. most of my siblings are married out of the religion as well. we just never clicked with it especially since my mom always bounced from one religion to another. so we all just really do our own thing. it always bothered me that she had no problem with my sisters husband who swears up and down the halocaust never happened (he's so disrespectful) but she has a problem with my husband who is always trying to help and has lent her thousands of dollars for her frivolous use when she asks us. it just really is annoying me so much

exactly @answeredprayer16

HER IDEAL...is exactly what you said...hers. She needs to stop trying to live thru you. She lived her life and did what she wanted and its only fair you do the same.

I am an Israeli Jew raised in ny and nj, my first sons father was italian /Brazilian, (big mistake )but,my 2nd sons father&father; of this baby is Puerto Rican.I 've never dated a man of my background, haha but,you jave to be happy with Who you chose and who loves you regardless of what anyone says,and yeah I've heard that plenty tooo..I'm still a jewish princess don't need a jewish man Prince hahaha

oh wow anyway ur not supposed to convert for love or marriage it's not a real conversion . I dated someone. not Jewish when I was younger and it had to end because I knew this would be the problem @rosiel49 it's super hard. specially for him 😟

@mrsmord, it is hard. I just thought by now they'd have gotten over it. especially since it was my mothers idea for us to marry 3 years ago. she pushed for it with the intentions of forcing him to convert but that did t fly once we found out about it

it's really hard to make them accept a relationship that has religion issues. it sucks

Ay I know the feeling to well