So I am living with my SO family, I also have a 3 year old, and my so mom is awesome most of the time and my mom is feeling left out of the baby birth because she will be watching my son while I deliver and I don't plan on telling gender until then (I find out in a couple weeks). My so mom may be there when I deliver and Im having trouble with my mom on feeling left out. I don't know what to do about it as im involving her in everything else. I feel like a fight for "whos the better grandma" is going to arise and I just want a happy delivery and family life. ideas on how to deal with this???
Комментарии
my mom is very bonded to my son. He's 3. she was there for his birth. this is my SO moms first grandchild. she also works 13hrs a day and my mom does not. im about at the point I feel sabotaged and ig ill have to cut off both of them which is unfair but Jesus idk wtf else to do. im having a homebirth.
And instead of her mil dropping off her son in her mom's then why just stay home with his grandson right? And her mom just pick her up and go to the hospital 😁 and since she's living in her mil she's going to spend a lot of time with the new baby instead if her mom. So I would choose my mom. Haha omg this is so complicated lol @spudssmommie
😂
@spudssmommie, yeah if I'm on her situation even though I live with my mil I would choose my mom. I could talk to my husband about it. If she really wanted her mom to be with her then she will and where she is more comfortable with during labor and delivery 😉 it is better in my opinion ❤️
@mommyandjonford, that's what I was thinking
Why not bring your mom instead of your Mil? Isn't possible?
no I don't. and I don't want alot of people around. I had planned on just my SO. But if he can't get there in time his mom said she would drop my son off at my moms and stay with me until my SO gets there. I just feel torn like I guess ill just be alone. :/
Do you have a sibling or friend that can watch him just for the day and your mom can get him after you deliver, are you being induced?
my mom doesn't know what to do in labor. she had csections in 89 and 91. Loll she stood forever away and then got weird at my sons birth after he was born. was hard to get him back. She's legally crazy so im really having trouble with this.