That's how I see it. Who else would would gladly give them half of their check just to make sure their daughters healthy and in a safe place. It's really frustrating. @rachel8792

Oh thats very different then, your sister shouldnt have the idea that its ok to disrespect you. I left when my sister was 5, and the other was 7, and a couple years later they were really bad beyond my control. Your parents obviously need you there, they should at least be glad you are there to help

I do live with them though. Because of my sister. If we moved out my parents would lose the house and have no electric or food. And I can't do that to my sister @rachel8792

I understand, I raised only one of the two sisters, but once we leave the nest its not really our job to parent them. Like you said they let go, but its not going to be on you. If you sister ever goes to you, then you can help guide her, but the way my grandma explained things to me is that its not our job to tell others how to raise their kids. There will come a time where your mom wont agree with how you raise your son, but thats tough on her because reality is that its your child. She raises hers, and you will raise yours. Im not siding with your mom in any way, im just saying we have this in common, and its hard to let go. My sisters used to listen to me, and behave, I was the one who woke up, changed and fed my youngest sister who is 9 now, but shes a living nightmare now. She talks back, and is very aggressive, my parents laugh, but I had to learn either argue with my mom and cause drama, or bite my tongue, because at the end of the day we are the ones who go home to our families, and your sister will continue to do what she does. Its sad, but if you dont live there anymore, theres not much you will be able to do to fix it. I personally hated arguing with my parents about those things, it just stressed me out, and was not worth it

Well I've raised my sister since the day she came home from the hospital. They put it on me because neither of them wanted her. She still slips up and calls me mom sometimes. Only when I got married and pregnant did I start to realize how wrong it was and told them to care for their own child but by then she was 3 years old. She listened really well when I was taking care of her but now they let her do everything she wants. She even hits them and gets away with it. So if they want to let her treat them like that it's on them but she's not gonna treat me that way. It doesn't fly with me at all. She needs discipline in her life or she'll grow up and get into bigger situations she won't be able to get out of. If my parents aren't gonna man up and do their job then I guess I'll continue to do it for them. @rachel8792 also if my son was acting that way towards one of them then I'd expect them to discipline him. That's how he'll learn not to disrespect his elders

I totally understand how you feel. My sisters were raised alot easier than my brother and I, and I had to learn the hard way. I know it sounds wierd, but she is your sister, and she is still little. Your mom is the only one who can really spank her or discipline her. Yes you are an adult, but I learned if I have a problem with how my siblings are acting, I tell my mom, and if she doesnt do anything, well all you can do is walk away. Believe me, I struggled for a while til my son came into the picture. I had to think of it this way... if my mom were to yell at my son, or spank him, would I be ok with it? Or should she have come to me so I can discipline him? I have a 2 year old little brother, and he is a spoiled little brat to the fullest, but I love him to death. He can get aggressive with my son, if my son wants one of his toys, and I learned that I cant hit him, but I can go to my parents to handle it.