My husband is Navy. In a week I will sign a notarized document, he will see a judge, and I will no longer have a military ID.. Meaning.. I will no longer have healthcare for my kids (he is not the biological), or money sent every month, etc. He's made such a big deal to get a divorce before July, when we would've been married a whole year (Texas wedding). This being the man who begged and Pleaded that we stay married when we separated. He said, and quote, "why screw us Both over$." Military men make more married.
So why is he rushing now? I assume it's because his family is Catholic and it'll be easier to annul if not a full year(?).
When I caught him.. We knew it was over. How I caught him- I thought I heard a sound similar to bricks hitting the floor. It was late night so I ran from the living room to the girls' bedroom thinking For Sure that my oldest had fallen Hard.. Maybe on furniture or Something loud.. What I find is my (she was one at the time) youngest sitting up crying, my oldest under the covers, and him on the bed. He tells me she had woken up so he went in there to make her go back to sleep. "And it worked" he says, "she's asleep now." Then he tells me, "they don't love me any less because of it." I say parenting classes.. That I'll go too because I know I'm too permissive. He says no- because he's not wrong. Anyway, when one has kids.. The whole game changes. He was a great guy, and a best friend.. Until I saw him with my kids. Friendship over.
We're both originally from Texas. I married my best friend of 5 years and asked him to do one thing: not to spank my children. So he did it in private, and they were terrified- because they were toddlers who couldn't Speak to Tell me what was going on. They could only run behind the couch and cry every time he came home.. For 5 months. There are worse men out there.. But to my kids who went from a no spanking home (I support spanking For Other Kids just not mine) to one where a man would take them alone and spank (to them- hit) them.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Am I wrong for telling my Bd that because we not Married my baby don't have to have his last name? He really got mad and told me I was project n ignorant. Crazy part is I was thinking about giving my baby his middle and last name
Keep the baby or Abortion.......
I'm 5 weeks pregnant which was not planned, told my family and there over the moon. I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years, we said we would be together no matter what. We both live with our parents and I'm in full-time work and he isn't. I've always wanted to be a mum it's one of my dreams, but my boyfriend thinks we should have an abortion because he thinks we are not ready, he doesn't have a full-time job and we are not living together. I don't believe in ab...
Make your own breakfast!
At what age do you think a child should be making their own breakfast? I have a 10 year old and I think he is perfectly capable of making himself breakfast. It doesn't take rocket science to put some waffles into the toaster, or microwave some pancakes. My husband insists that he needs to have breakfast made for him because if we left it up to him he wouldn't eat enough and it would take him forever.
It is. Man I over elaborate. What was my original question again..