My fiancé has not been supportive since we found out I was pregnant. He said he is scared and that he needs time to process things. It has now been weeks since we found out and yesterday I had my first sonogram done. I thought he'd be just as excited as I was seeing our little bloomie for the first time but he wasn't and I couldn't help but cry. He apologized for his behavior and said he will try to be more supportive but I just don't feel he has accepted the situation nor will he be supportive. Am I the only one going through this?! #heartbroken
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thank you for sharing your personal stories with me and for your support. I did tell him that I will no longer tell him about my pregnancy status unless he wanted to know at which point he should ask me. I am going to give him some space and time, I am just hoping he comes around sooner than later. I really don't want to hold onto any grudges because of his behavior.
This is very normal for men to act this way. Remember men have feelings too they are just less likely to voice it. Give him time and be supportive he's probably just nervous. And that's completely normal. My boyfriend didn't get excited with our first till I was like 20 weeks.
My ex husband went through that. When I told him I was pregnant he told me to get an abortion. Then a week later he told me to keep it. Never went to doctors appointments, wasn't really interested until it was time to name her. Give him some space, maybe suggest therapy. Many men never get into it the way we do.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
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My friend posted this on facebook last night and said her kids were asleep within minutes. It's a song that scientists created to help people fall asleep. I was skeptical but I thought what the hay, I'll try it out. I didn't bank on Dh falling asleep, but both him and lo were asleep by minute 2. And lo slept six straight hours. ?
Starting TWW. Anyone else?
I had a stillborn daughter at 38 weeks this passed Nov. This is my second month ttc. (Last month we only tried for like two weeks though). My last and only pregnancy, I got pregnant the first month of ttc so I hope it's quick this time again.
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My BF hasn't seemed interested or excited my whole pregnancy. I've heard him one time ever say anything about the baby. And I'm 30 weeks. He wasn't even excited or showed much interest at our baby shower. It's his 3rd child though. But his first boy! I've talked to him about it earlier on in my pregnancy and he was like I am excited! But I'm scared too a baby is a lot of work etc etc. so I don't even say anything anymore. I'm hoping once the baby is here he'll act differently.