what are the top things that MUST be done before the baby gets here?

clean super good right before because you will not feel like it for a few weeks when baby gets here & you don't really have time . also something I wish I would've done is make meals and freeze them so you can just throw them in the oven .

Try to stalk up on the groceries you can, you probably won't feel like going out for long periods of time the first few weeks

Make some casseroles and freeze them cuz you won't wanna cook or do anything for the first two weeks