Ok so I usually have zero trust issues when it comes to my SO. He has never given me reason to before. Recently he's been doing Uber on the side since i've been out of work to help make ends meet. He usually does it at night because he works his regular job days. He got off work, came home to change his work clothes, and went right back out like usual. He got a lil more jiggy than usual but i didnt say anything. So he gets home, we talk a lil and then he goes to sleep. Its hard for me to fall back to sleep so im looking thru my Instagram and come across a picture of him and some dudes in a bar or something wearing the same outfit so i know its not an old picture. I look thru the guys page and i seen that he was promoting his bday party at a strip club which was taking place last night. Im so disappointed. Like why lie? I would understand him wanting to celebrate being that his bday is sunday and im supposed to be getting induced saturday. He just fucked up my whole attitude towards him at the time when i feel we should be the most connected. I feel like i lost all trust in him. Its a horrible feeling. Like if you'll lie about something so small then what wouldn't u lie about smh.
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Well we've talked about the exact same thing over and over and over again. and deep down I wonder would I really get mad if he straight up told me or am I bullshitting myself. in my book my husband is still fine cause I do have random times when I get pissed off over nothing.
@madibug96, nothing justifies lying IMO. He knows i dont care if he goes to a strip club. We've talked about going together all the time
you just need to relax. if he's never given you reason before to not trust him then this small act is nothing, really. he probably didn't tell you cause he thinks you'd get mad, my husband has done that, but he would never cheat. I'm really in a similar boat, but I can't take my own advice
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So its really over between me n him. Im angry n hurt. He block me from reaching out to him. Im so upset. So i want him to be punish for hurting me. What should i do? I have naked pics of him i want to put out. I want to call his job get him fired. Im so hurt. This is his first child n he dont even want to be here for the birth. 4 damn yrs n it come to this. What should i do? I want Revenge
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i agree with you. there was no need to lie. specially in this moments of your pregnancy. @desiree