ladies this is technically my 3rd pregnancy 1 living 5y/o miscarried 1 & now I'm almost 6mths with baby girl.. Do y'all think I'm wrong if I get my tubes tied and not tell anyone??? this will be my husbands 1st biological child I'm almost thirty I never planned on having babies in my thirties he just don't understand why I don't want more babies. I know he wanna try for a boy but would if we have all girls he not thinking about my body #imdrove
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@secondtimemommy88, my MIL told me the exact thing
I think when your married you have to both sign for it. @kimoramom
he don't like condoms b.c does my body terrible my biggest fear is being pregnant again at my 6wk check considering I got pregnant one week after my ectopic I'm fertile he fertile I'll be pregnant every second
Maybe try explaining to him that there's other ways, he might not realize that
It would be messed up to get it done and not tell him, next time you bring it up just tell him your getting it done, don't make it a discussion, it's your body, if he wants more children there is always surrogates or just don't have sex with him, my husband wants me to get my tubes tied because he doesn't want anymore but I do, so I'm not getting it done, if he doesn't want more children then it's his responsibility to make sure it doesn't happen, that's how I look at it
I never wanted more than one child I gave in and had another to satisfy him and complete our family I'm kinda lost I don't wanna hurt him or do it behind his back
Getting your tubes tied is a big deal. What if you were to change your mind in a year or two? I don't think you should do it behind your husbands back. I would take some time to really think about it and to talk with your husband.
@arivera64, yes but I've told him how I felt but it turns into a disagreement he just don't get it he make me feel like I just don't want his babies or something
You need to tell him at least. It's jacked up if you dont
@kimoramom, I've also been told if your single some won't do at all.
I plan on getting my rubes tied if I have to get another c section, but my doctor knows my SO is okay with it also.