Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
So I just went through my boyfriend phone while he was sleep & im pretty sure we all know what I found....him talking to multiple other females in a relationship type of way. When he wakes up should I act normal? Or confront him about it right then & there.?
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.
Would you consider this cheating? What would you do I need advice from a neutral stand point. Genuine advice of what you would do. Ds had his tonsils out last night. For some reason my gut about dh was not good. At night I logged into his Snapchat and saw he was talking to an old friend who he had a thing with. Last thing I was able to see was him saying it was hard to not log into those pictures and she then said she couldn't answer the phone because she was with her husband. I texted dh and asked what pictures was it so hard for him to not look at and I guess he called her and they talked. And she supposedly came clean to me and said they would just talk and vent about what stresses them. Dh said the same thing and I guess the pictures were of them from a long time ago of them and other friends hanging out. Dh started crying saying he never meant anything that everything looked like the perfect crime but that there was nothing there. I have since kept my distance and told him to give me space. At the moment I don't want to see him. I believe what they said but I'm so hurt and I don't want to be the stupid person to believe everything.
Destyn·
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Lol u asking a bunch of hormonal women.
Jazzmin·
Мама двоих (младенец)
He shouldn't have a problem with u going through his phone if he has nothing to hide...and his ex's #? I would've flipped out on him like wtf why do u have her #?! And the pic would've got me mad as well depending if it was a random girl who sent it
ann·
An ex is an ex for a reason! there is no reason to have her phone number still on his phone. You break up with the person because you don't want to be with them and you usually don't want anything to do with them anymore. And naked pictures hell no. I don't care what's going on in the relationship that is just inappropriate all together I would confront the dude because if he is hiding that kind of crap you don't want to dig any deeper and find out the truth. If he lies to you or gives you any kind of crap for having that woman's phone number in his phone then there is a lot more that he has to be guilty about........ woman's intuition is a powerful thing. And usually if you get a thought in your mind that you need to check up on something then there is something to check up on and there is a reason why that little voice in your heart told you to look. When a man is hiding something they get angry...... and the anger is not with you the anger is with themselves for getting caught
lydia·
Мама сына (9 лет), беременна (28 нед.)
I know I'm sure it will but at least u know now, and he shouldn't of been doing anything to make u feel that way. and I would throw that wtf right back. fuck his feelings u and baby are what he should be worried about!
Rachel·
Мама сына (1 год)
He shouldnt have anything to hide period, and guess what, he did. You should be able to trust that he has nothing hidden, but he didnt, now you have the right to check
shantel14·
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@lyds,
shantel14·
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ugh i know laddies i will talk to him tomorrow but i feel like its gana get worse when i say something bc i was going thru his email & hes gana be like wtf 😒@lyds. @rachel8792 @mamaash
lydia·
Мама сына (9 лет), беременна (28 нед.)
no guck that I'm say something u not gonna have me pregnant about to have ur baby n u got naked pictures on ur phone. nope. n me being me I'm trip he even still talks to his ex. like wtf u need to even talk to her about? for one. u don't need either of the things when ur withsomeone. smh I really hope whatever u decide to do is what u feel is right. but it's not good for baby if u keep it in cuz either way ur gonna stress ur self.
shantel14·
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i know i mean the picture i know is an old picture he had just saved .. but i guess i dnt want him to start an argument bc i was going thru his phone while he was asleep -_- @dohmommy2016
Rachel·
Мама сына (1 год)
The naked pics is what gets me, but all that stress can put you into labor, and thats the last thing you want is to go into labor, and not have support. But then again, I would do it to get it out of the way cuz once the baby is here, all your time will be spent with the baby
Deleted·
I think keeping it in is way more worse. you shouldn't feel scared to talk to him about it bc he definitely shouldn't have either of those things on his phone.
Sara·
Мама сына-младенца
I would definitely confront. The number is whatever to me but the naked picture is unacceptable.