what should i do about engorged breasts .. I've pumped and everything its just the left one and im not trying to wake up…

did you massage while you pumped? my experience that helps, but baby does the job

yeah i did and ive been breastfeeding him every 3 hours and even when i feed him i message the milk through my breast lol its just my luck tbh @cocomomma

is every 3 hours his schedule? or is that his demand schedule?

Put the baby on as much as possible. Warm compression, hot shower....

yeah hes in the middle of clusterfeeding so it might be less than 3 hours hes waking up for feeding and when hes not on my boob ive been pumping they arent to bad right now but the second i stop for a little they start hurting @cocomomma

my little one is now every 2 hrs or so. Like you im nursing and pumping. the past couple of days I've been engorged, no idea why. but I'd keep doing what you're doing