No matter what people do, people will always be there to judge you or stereotype you.
You say "no" to sex? Well than you're a prude ass virgin. "She is 18 and still a virgin? Whatever. She's a closet hoe." You lose your virginity? Why are you such a hoe? "Can you not control those slutty hormones?" You break up with your boyfriend/girlfriend? You just want to hoe around. "Don't catch aids trying to make me jealous." You actually stay with your boyfriend/girlfriend for awhile? She's only with him/her because of the money or "dick too bomb." You don't drink or get high? Why are you so lame? Better get comfortable not having any friends in high school/ college. You smoke weed or go to parties? You're never going anywhere but jail. Like, just grow up. You get pregnant at a young age? Well what do expect? If I was her parent, I'd beat her senseless. "Hunny, this is why I dont let you hoe around because then you will end up like 'her'." You drop out of school to get a job to take care of your family? "Why you so dumb? I mean, you never finished school anyways." Your baby momma/ baby daddy broke up? You have a child together. Quit being selfish. You stay with your baby momma/ baby daddy? Just because you have a child together doesn't mean you have to stay together. You get married at a young age? Well you guys aren't going to work out anyways. "We shall expect a divorce sooner or later" You get a divorce because neither one of you are happy? Nobody knows how to work things out anymore. "All you do is just run from your problems"
I could go on and on, but the moral of this is, is no matter what you do, you will be judged.
Honestly, do what makes you happy because it doesn't matter what road you go down, there will always be someone else on that road to judge you. Life is too short to be living a life to be worried what other people think of you.
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My husband tries to say the same stuff.. so I tell him if you want to think I'm prude then I will show you how prude I can be. Then he rolls his eyes and shuts up about it. 😂@mommytoabel
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I'm on another mom and there's nothing but judging and fighting so I had to share this with everyone. can't let the little things get you down,everyone judges. @andiryan93 @mommakaz