Thank you lady's. It will be 2 months on the 30th that I had my baby. I'm not in desperate need of sex but I still want to keep my man happy . And his willing to wait as long as it takes for me to recover. @showersoverflowers @maddiesmommy022916 @mrsbutler @ftmommieoftwiinz @rachel8792 @hellosweetie
I would wait until you go to your postpartum appointment and get the okay from your doctor. The reason is not only because of waiting for the bleeding to stop, swelling to go down and possible tears to heal, but most importantly to allow your cervix time to completely close back up, because it takes time for that to happen and if you introduce any outside forces (same reason you're not supposed to use tampons) you can get an infection in your uterus which can be quite dangerous. Not to mention the fact that you are more fertile right after birth with your cervix all open and whatnot lol
I waited 2 months, and even at 2 months it hurt like a #<$;#, but I think its because I tore. At 6 weeks, my doctor cleared me, but it hurt when he checked me so I waited another 2 weeks, and it was hard for a few weeks