I had the conversation with my husband.

Me: babe, we need to talk

him: yes, I'm very hungry and you have been mean to me all day.

me:I've been treating you the way you have been treating me. although you may feel like its not the same it sure is. you feel sad and unloved and that's how you make me feel. I am pregnant with your second child. I expect you to do more. we got married, and we made the choice to bring new life and that doesn't mean that its all my job. you play a big part in it too. you don't like it then leave because I'm not making you stay.

him: babe I love you and our babies and I know I'm a fool. I'm sorry. I'll help more.

Me: well, I gave you a taste of what its like to be without me and I'm not the girl you want to fuck with. I hope that this lesson helps you because honestly I don't have time for bs and your laziness.

him: okay babe. I know. I am sorry though.