does anyone else feel like this: my pregnancy was unplanned and a few years premature in our grand scheme, however wouldnt have it any other way but i am struggling to fully come to terms with being pregnant (first time) and totally grasp what it means. its almost like an identity crisis i dont know how else to explain it. i wish i could move on from this odd feeling of uncertainty and accept that a baby is growing in my belly. im 18+4... 😟😕
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@chaitea Awe hun :) I am still shocked! everytime I look at my daughter I cant believe I grew her inside of me! The whole process is amazing! I didn't find out what I was having until the birth :) So It was even more amazing when I found out she was a girl haha :) As I and all my family really thought I was having a boy :) xx Don't worry about the raw egg :) as long as its pasturised and British :) it is fine :) I would be more worried about the Coffee content in Tiramisu cc
@mummywarwick, those random little realisations that turn into BIG realisations, like the school run, vaccinations (😐), sports teams or dance groups, sleep overs yadayada.. being someones MUM. i cant wait to start feeling the kicks and see my tummy grow. and to hold baby for the first time, will be amazing z
@winterbaby95, when did the shock subside for you? i totally forget im pregnant sometimes haha like getting halfway through a tirimisu and realising its made of raw egg 😣 pregnancy is a wonderful experience i agree. its kinda amazing its even happening! x
@emmaclark, lovely to hear!! so you felt the same all the way through until baby was born?! ive got a feeling im going to be the same. i guess you dont know what you dont know until you know it 😂 x
@stacey804, so reassuring to know! it seems like everyone is so excited and knows what theyre doing and have to do and im over here like... WAIT hold upppp, i have to do that too?! its such a big adjustment and although my body is charging ahead, my mind is lagging behind a bit haha 😕 thanks for your kind message x
My pregnancy was planned and I never thought I'd be having my first baby at 30! (Took me a while to find the perfect man, lol) and I feel the same! Just the other day it occurred to me that I'll have to do the school run. Every day! And even though my tummy has been growing and I can feel the kicks, I don't think it's actually hit me yet, I'm going to be a mummy!! xXx
I believe pregnancy is amazing and out of world experience even if it was planned :) Mine was unplanned...I was just shocked..sometimes I would forget I was pregnant for a few minutes lol! But then there's people who plan and try for years..and when they get pregnant..they still cant believe it is happening :) It is a wonderful experience xx
I kinda felt like this until I held my baby in my arms lol, always just thought "nah not me😂". I agree, @stacey804, you definitely can't prepare yourself. everything clicked for me when my boy came along😊 although some days I still can't believe I'm someone's mum ahaha, it's just such a weird but wonderful feeling x
I've spoke to a few people and to be honest even the ones who have planned pregnancy still find it surreal. It's hard to explain the feelings and emotions until you go through pregnancy, isn't it. I don't think anyone can actually prepare themselves for the changes pregnancy and a baby makes In life hun. Your definitely not alone though xx
pretty much yeah!! felt so odd buying baby clothes etc🙈 I was still living at home etc and was only 18 when I fell pregnant so I still felt like a child myself! once I moved out and had my boy it all started to feel more real, wouldn't change any of it for the world💕💕 it's great hun enjoy it! it goes so fast x