I dont understand how someone can claim they are in debt, gets foodstamps, and has the smallest limit to spend on their children but also spend thousands on theirself. Shouldn't you take care of your kids and bills before? I mean, i collect foodstamps, but thats because after paying all our bills and taking care of our children's needs, we still need a little help. Anything we do for fun is saved up for, or is free. But we arnt going to spend thousands out of spite, greed or bordem.

so I have been debating on wether were gonna buy a crib. we have a bassinet that baby will sleep in along with sleeping with us at times. what are you mommies doing? crib, bassinet, pack and play, or a combination of these? I don't wanna spend money on a crib if the babg isn't even gonna be sleeping in it for a while

need suggestions....

So at work we have a drink thief. Any time we put a drink in the fridge it disappears. I swear I know who it is. So far he's taken drinks from everyone that works in the office, we even put a sign to not take anything you didn't pay for and wrote our names on the drinks. The person I think is taking them works out of the office so we never get to see who is drinking them.

I am never throwing my son a big party again. We are literally spending over 1k and I’m so stressed. I did not want to spend this much money

what are your thoughts on playpens and bassinets I don't want to spend extra money if not needed?!