im allowed to get frustrated with my daughter non stop cries of wanting to be held right? am i a bad mom for it?

And no, you're not a bad mom, being a mom is frustrating sometimes. Men don't always get it because they're not the ones dealing with it like us

Maybe you can try wearing her? That's what I did with my first and am doing with this one, if I didn't I'd never get anything done lol

& it doesn't matter if ur a new mom I'm a mother of 2 & still get upset from time to time

Get a baby carrier and make sure you get some down time!!!!

Plus you're a new mom, we all make mommy mistakes as long as your child is healthy and happy that's what matters at the end of the day 😊

On a side note if it's not bottles and there's enough clean clothes don't worry about keeping everything spotless

@gabbator95, ofcourse your allowed to get frustrated and overwhelmed with your LO for constant crying! I used to have to put on headphones and walk away from my little monster when he was little because i tried everything to calm him and nothing worked... i obviously would make sure he was safe and check on him every few minutes but this really helped me (i have a serious anxiety disorder and this is the only thing that would keep me from having a breakdown) if you ever have any questions im always available

ok thank you girls @lil_bigmama @annasmomma12

Yes u can & no in no way r u a bad mother it's not easy & yes it's ok to put them in a safe place & walk away for a few mins

@annasmomma12,

i did cause im trying to clean but she was constantly crying and wouldnt stop. she eventually fell asleep bit i got frustrated and angry. felt bad afterwards and called my boyfriend and he said im not allowed to get frustrated with her. felt really bad.

Just make sure she's fed and clean diaper first

No you're not a bad mom but sometimes you just gotta let them cry, place her in a safe spot like her crib or pack and play and walk away