im allowed to get frustrated with my daughter non stop cries of wanting to be held right? am i a bad mom for it?

No you're not a bad mom but sometimes you just gotta let them cry, place her in a safe spot like her crib or pack and play and walk away

Just make sure she's fed and clean diaper first

i did cause im trying to clean but she was constantly crying and wouldnt stop. she eventually fell asleep bit i got frustrated and angry. felt bad afterwards and called my boyfriend and he said im not allowed to get frustrated with her. felt really bad.

@annasmomma12,

Yes u can & no in no way r u a bad mother it's not easy & yes it's ok to put them in a safe place & walk away for a few mins

ok thank you girls @lil_bigmama @annasmomma12

@gabbator95, ofcourse your allowed to get frustrated and overwhelmed with your LO for constant crying! I used to have to put on headphones and walk away from my little monster when he was little because i tried everything to calm him and nothing worked... i obviously would make sure he was safe and check on him every few minutes but this really helped me (i have a serious anxiety disorder and this is the only thing that would keep me from having a breakdown) if you ever have any questions im always available

On a side note if it's not bottles and there's enough clean clothes don't worry about keeping everything spotless

Plus you're a new mom, we all make mommy mistakes as long as your child is healthy and happy that's what matters at the end of the day 😊

Get a baby carrier and make sure you get some down time!!!!

& it doesn't matter if ur a new mom I'm a mother of 2 & still get upset from time to time

Maybe you can try wearing her? That's what I did with my first and am doing with this one, if I didn't I'd never get anything done lol

And no, you're not a bad mom, being a mom is frustrating sometimes. Men don't always get it because they're not the ones dealing with it like us