I'm sorry to rant but if you were in my shoes you'd be going just as crazy. He still hasn't brought back my kids, won't…
I'm sorry to rant but if you were in my shoes you'd be going just as crazy. He still hasn't brought back my kids, won't pick up the breastmilk and won't tell me where they are. Police officer told me at most they can go do a welfare check and make sure the kids are ok and if they are in another town that can send that town's pd but if he doesn't want me to kno where he is then they won't tell me. So the officer goes to call him comes back and says well he agreed to the welfare check and then he changed his mind.....really?! so you just say ok and hang up the phone not knowing the welfare of my kids?!
Andrea·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@deafmama16, divorce is definitely in progress.. no one would ever think someone would do this.
Keora Willis·
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As soon you get them back I would divorce his ass and put him on child support shoot don't ever keep a mother from her kids. Smh prayers for you
Andrea·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@rachel8792, I just want to see my oldest so bad bc she's never been away from me this long and she doesn't like change so her being away from home and out of her routine I kno is bothering her. and I have no choice but to stay calm. I can't show any type of emotion bc he will tell the police that I'm acting irrational and he thinks I'll hurt somebody.
Rachel·
Мама сына (1 год)
is hurting the girls most since they dont get to be with their mother. The good thing is you are remaining calm, and doing the right things, and it shows hes being irrational
Rachel·
Мама сына (1 год)
I can only imagine, just reading your story gets me heated, and makes me think of what I would do if my husband took off with my baby. I would probably send all my uncles after him, or something. It makes me livid when men think they can do crap like this. You trusted him to take your babies, and he never returned. He obviously cant be trusted, and
Andrea·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@mimiz, I really thought they would do something. and my daughter is the same way. I always breastfeed her in the morning and she may get 1-2 formula bottles a day bc too much and she spits up also as well as gets bad gas.
@rachel8792 Thank you. It's seriously the worst feeling. Full custody and supervised visits is what I'm working for. I just hate that it was even capable of getting to this point.
Rachel·
Мама сына (1 год)
You can use all this against him, hes definately unfit if hes keeping them from their own mother
Rachel·
Мама сына (1 год)
This is so wrong, I cant believe he is doing things like this. Ugh, I wish the best for you, hopefully he comes to his senses and gives them back, or you are able to get them asap. Praying for yah girl
Mimi·
Ummm yea no not against your will and he's endangering your children they need their mother especially the breastfed baby anytime my daughter has formula her tummy gets upset she spits up
Andrea·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@rachel8792, I have been keeping record of everything. I'm going to see an attorney in the morning and see where that gets me. I'm really lost bc the police threw me off with their reactions.
Andrea·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@mimiz, Me too. They just keep saying he's the father so he can take them.
Rachel·
Мама сына (1 год)
keep a record of everything, especially that the baby is breastfed, and he has not picked up any of the milk. He can mess up the babys tummy if the baby isnt used to formula, and can dry you up, which is bad. Have you gone down to the courts to file for custody?
Mimi·
I'm so sorry you're going through this sounds like kidnapping to me only mothers have those rights unless she's a danger to her children