**just a little RANT because I'm tired of seeing all the rude comments over someone's age**
I don't care if your 15 years old and 35 weeks pregnant or if your 35 years old and 15 weeks pregnant, there is no need for you to be bashing anyone on here for being pregant at any age, everyone on here is looking for support and people to talk to whether your pregnant, had a child, or trying to. Everyone's here for the same thing just going through it a little diffrently. Yes, everyone is going to have a different opinion about a situation but, there is no need to just bash someone because, of their age!! At least they are stepping up and taking responsibility for their actions and not pushing their child off on someone else or getting an abortion just because. Especially when theres people out there that can't have kids of their own! So you before you go bashing on people because, of their age think about what they are doing instead of just their age and downing on them because of it. No I'm not saying by any means for them to go out and get pregnant just because, they feel like they can but, I'm saying that we should all support one another just the same! If you don't agree then don't I'm not asking you to but, what I am asking for is to have a little respect and think about the others around you and how they feel, put yourself in their shoes how would you feel if someone was saying everything to you that you are to them?
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I know! It's not fair especially when young moms on here are just looking for help and support. I wish there was a way for people to understand that things happen. My thought process is basically this, if your having sex at any age, you could get pregnant. So the 25 year old that's bashing on the 16 year old, well it could've been them if they were having sex. The 16 year old just happened to get there miracle a little sooner.
I don't understand it either. I had my daughter at 16 and she's the best thing that's ever happen to me and my son will be here after I turn 19 next month and I know for a fact I'm a damn good mother as well, no matter what anyone says about our age at least we took responsablitly of our actions and stepped up. As for knowing other mothers, I know some both young and older mothers that are great and some not so great that like to go out and party 24-7 and leave their kids with someone all the time. but, as for the ones on here that are just looking for advice and support they shouldn't be bashed on just for their age. @charlee12
So do I and I dorm understand why people feel the need to say something. I had my daughter at 18 and I can say I'm a hell of a mother compared to some 30 year old moms. And I'm having another baby now at 19 and I know I'm a good mom regardless of my age. I know plenty of young amazing moms and I also unfortunately know mothers that shouldn't even be able to reproduce due to there life decisions that are 30. Anybody can be an amazing mother at 16 or 36.
@charlee12 I just had to get this off my chest because, in all honesty there's no need for it to happen like it does, I see it all the time on here.
100000000% agree with you!!
Exactly cause, when it comes down to it, if it's meant to happen it's gonna happen whether you think your ready or not. @charlee12