yea.. I know I have tried..and I feel good about that... but a relationship can't work with one person constantly trying to make this work.. it takes two ppl that are constantly genuine.. not just at times.. you deserve better..someone that's never going to give up on u nor wants to hurt u... but trust me.. it's easier said than done.. I have told myself that time after time..and because I love my ex so much..I always took him back and thought he was genuine.. I kept making excuses for him..I knew he loved me..but someone that truly loves u will never hurt you time after time.. if you know you want to make this work with him.. you gotta let him know that your willing to wait till he matures and figures out whats most important to him.. but until than..your going to have to let him find out for himself... just stay strong..

well, pot is the least of his problems. I just feel like that anthony really has been genuine at times. and I know that some of the stuff he says is bullshit. out of a whole 5 years, this is the 8/9 time this is happened. But second this pregnancy. I just dont want to know that I didnt try to at least make thisfamily work for her. because I know if something happens, I at least tried all I could to make it work. @ileanasmami06

I totally know how you feel... my baby's father is a huge pot head and I hate it.. his new gf now is also one and I guess that's what he feels he wants now... he told me everything I wanted to hear but we have to realize as women that we can't stay around waiting on a man to mature...grow up and realize what truly means the most to them and what is there priority.. they are messing with us.. seeing how much we can take from them.. my ex would come in and out my life also.. hurting me over and over but knowing I would always take him back.. but I had enough.. as much as it hurts..I don't want my daughter to see me take this from a guy and think it is OK... I don't want her to feel this pain...so I have to do better and just know the next guy that comes into my life is going to be my true prince and show my daughter how a real man should treat a women..

well he has his moments, we have our good times and our bad. But every once in a while this happens, & he knows it breaks my heart. He told me he wouldn't walk out on us. we were gonna get married.

and idk if he would cheat on me or not, but his problems have always been drugs, I love him with all my heart, and I just wish that he would realize that family always comes first. ive been crying since 11:30 last night. & I know my little girl can feel it, I dont want to hurt her, but I literally feel my heart being ripped out my chest, because this isnt the first time he has done this. @rileysmomma16 @ileanasmami06

it would be easier if he didn't want anything to do with the baby..but he does.. so he texts me asking about the baby and he wants to be there when I give birth.. Idk if I should let him..Idk if I could even take seeing him

I'm in the same boat... except my ex actually seemed to care in the beginning and ended up cheating on me and leaving me when I hit 7 months.. is now living with him gf.. smh.. i went crazy knowing someone can do something like that after saying he wanted to get engaged with me.. it hurt so bad I literally cried every minute of the day.. had to go to Parks in my car and just scream my head off.. it's going to take time... I'm still not over him but the crying has calmed down.. but recently I've been missing him again..and Idk what to do

I understand. I don't mean this in a hateful way, but if it's been 5 years I don't think he will ever come around. Now I may can be wrong, but sometimes a child will make a man walk out no matter what he says. Always put your baby first! I hope you can get through this. I know it's rough

im almost to that point. im sick of crying myself to sleep. but he doesnt care. I've tried for 5 years I to get him to love me like I love him, I tried to give him a family, & he chooses to walk out when I'm 25 weeks pregnant.. I dont know what to do. @rileysmomma16

I know it's hard. I was the same way, with my ex until he literally made my life miserable (emotionally & mentally) then I finally just couldn't take it anymore. Be strong momma!