Why does she wanna induce at 39

Happened to me. A girl checked me then a guy and I was less cm than before. They're fingers were was different sizes lol

IMO it's way more likely the nurse was just wrong. doctors wouldn't lie about dilation, because it's irrelevant to labor til you're in active labor, so no reason to lie. you can always decline induution if it's not medically necessary and you don't want to. :) here they don't induce til 42 weeks unless medically necessary

You should ask for a membrane sweep if you dont wamt to be induced so you can go into labor on your own

I would asked to be rechecked. Saying you are dilated is a big deal (in my opinion) and if you are you do what you think is best. But the doctor needs to give you a clear answer. I've been told it can be difficult to tell. So if a nurse just did it at the hospital I'd definitely get rechecked by the doc