I figured he wouldn't want to fight cz of the way he was raised. we even talked about it before our son was born. I don't mind him seeing the little ones, it's the ones that get out of control and we both start yelling is what I don't want him to see.

I want my kids to see me and their dad fight.. so they don't grow up thinking that happy couples don't fight.. I want them to see that fighting is normal and healthy and that you can argue and fight without physical violence.. but I definitely do understand the not wanting them to see it too!!

Have you explained to him why it's not good to fight in front of your kid? Maybe he truly doesn't know and needs someone to tell him. If he still does it calmly say can we do this later since (insert your kids name here) is here. It probably won't work though.. It didn't with my husband.

thanks. I've never wanted mine to see is fight like that.. he just doesn't get it and it bugs me. but he gets mad when I want to walk away when I know we're starting to fight.

Nope. That's good parenting. My husband doesn't understand why I get so mad when he yells at me in front of our son "because he's too little to understand" uh babies still pick up on things. And children who see their parents fight grow up to have problems too.. In life and in relationships. I know that because I grew up watching my parents fight constantly. You're doing the right thing.