its tough when religion gets involve around your son or daughter life. Since my son was born people ask me if im going to baptize or Christianity. our families are christians. he isn't a church goer. i asked him about christening our son. hes not so for it. i been going to church. i told him i would like to Christianity our son at the church that supported me a lot during my high risk pregnancy. now he doesn't like the idea that we should to take him to where his grandparents go. now hes upset. this is so frustrating.
really is tough choice to make. I baptized all my kids in the same church but this baby is my bf first child and he wants to baptize him at his family church. he doesn't go to church, I rarely do but I want to continue tradition. his family wants his church too.
That's such a tough situation to be in. I completely understand. Just remember to always think about your child's salvation and do what you feel is best for his soul.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Question. I just left my husband for cheating and now hes been harassing me. Hes threatening to come get our son. I dont care if he sees his son but I'm not comfortable with him leaving with him bc hes never taken care of him a day In his life and he might use him against me. Am I wrong for feeling this way??
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
Just so mad at my husband before we moved he promised he would put our son to bed at night and get him his bottle. Then promised that on the mornings he doesn't work or the ones he works later he would feed him breakfast so I can have my relax time before having him all day long. Then every morning he is here he says he's not going to get him breakfast because he doesn't want to and sits there telling me to go make and feed our son breakfast. Then every time I remind him of his promise he rolls ...
So my son seemed super excited when we came and got him. On the way home he was saying how there was this other teacher or whatever. So I sit down and start asking small questions like was she nice? Did you like it? Meet any friends? Things like that. He then tells me like it's no big deal ( bc my son likes everyone) that the teacher said he was stupid, and then wouldn't give him any cookies cuz he was bad and the kids said he was being a whiny baby.... Now he said this stuff like it was no big ...
I've been thinking about this too, at first I was against it and then I wasn't. Neither me or my SO are religious and our families aren't either. I feel like a hypocrite having our child baptised when we don't even plan on going to church...