Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Question. I just left my husband for cheating and now hes been harassing me. Hes threatening to come get our son. I dont care if he sees his son but I'm not comfortable with him leaving with him bc hes never taken care of him a day In his life and he might use him against me. Am I wrong for feeling this way??
Trigger. Lost baby Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
Just so mad at my husband before we moved he promised he would put our son to bed at night and get him his bottle. Then promised that on the mornings he doesn't work or the ones he works later he would feed him breakfast so I can have my relax time before having him all day long. Then every morning he is here he says he's not going to get him breakfast because he doesn't want to and sits there telling me to go make and feed our son breakfast. Then every time I remind him of his promise he rolls his eyes and gets butt hurt like wtf. You promised me these things I didn't make you and it makes me mad when you don't want to honor your word and then demand that I do it instead of at least asking me if I could. I feed my son his breakfast and now I'm eating mine in the kitchen because I'm just so irritated.
So my son seemed super excited when we came and got him. On the way home he was saying how there was this other teacher or whatever. So I sit down and start asking small questions like was she nice? Did you like it? Meet any friends? Things like that. He then tells me like it's no big deal ( bc my son likes everyone) that the teacher said he was stupid, and then wouldn't give him any cookies cuz he was bad and the kids said he was being a whiny baby.... Now he said this stuff like it was no big deal and moved on with the conversation so I asked him again and he said the same thing. So I ask so your teacher was mean to you? He's like no.. But he didn't change his story now I feel some type of way but don't know how to go about it. Advice?
Sari·
Мама дочки (6 лет), беременна (24 нед.)
I've been thinking about this too, at first I was against it and then I wasn't. Neither me or my SO are religious and our families aren't either. I feel like a hypocrite having our child baptised when we don't even plan on going to church...
octobermom14·
Мама сына-младенца
@polkadotcutie @d_judy thanks for your advice
Dulce Ramirez·
Мама четверых детей
really is tough choice to make. I baptized all my kids in the same church but this baby is my bf first child and he wants to baptize him at his family church. he doesn't go to church, I rarely do but I want to continue tradition. his family wants his church too.
Violeta Guerrero·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (38 нед.)
That's such a tough situation to be in. I completely understand. Just remember to always think about your child's salvation and do what you feel is best for his soul.