thanks girls! my inlaws are going nuts saying "you guys and your rules??" they are heavy smokers, and I just didn't want their dirty hands all over my brand new baby!! but I want my mom and brother there after I shower ... inlaws will prob shit a brick when they find out! 😩
I didn't have many, and they certainly didn't come in until a few hr after baby was born. And no one stayed for long either. So it's definitely up to you.
I didn't have visitors... I only had my mom and my sister in law there (and hubs) since they were there when I gave birth. My mom visited every day I was there but I didn't want anyone coming by especially since I gave birth at 36 weeks and he was sooooo tiny! I was scared lol. I didn't have anyone come by my home either until a couple weeks later. With my first I didn't let anyone around for a little over a month!