So ladies; yesterday I went through his phone. Just cause. And I saw his ex texted him an congradulated him on his captains test for being able to take it and how proud she is of him. Ok then started talking about some weird shit something about her binki her back one and was like oh yeah you looked good in that one and just flirty in a way with him. And him just not stopping it. Mind you she texted him in dec. but now idk how to bring it up cause we spoke about her in the start of relationship and he said he'd stop talking to her cause he wouldn't want to mess up what we have. But now she texted again and talked to him. While I texted him but he won't text me back and what not. But text her back. How the fuck you can be oissed off of this divorce I'm trying to get started and done and everything for us because it was nothing with us. That you're talking to your ex and not thinking I won't find out. Ok well I know her number and what not so idk. I'm talk to him tonight but how do I bring it up.

What a douche

So that's why I feel more like shit cause idk what he meant about that.

Yeah then he goes; I'm going to have my boy either way. Stating like not with me but he will.

Let him know that sperm determines the gender. He can blame himself! Sorry he made you feel bad ☹️

It's so hard, and I don't know what to say nor do. Cause I feel like complete shit.

This upsets me.. Im sorry youre going through this! You deserve to have a happy pregnancy and he should be thankful that you are having his children... I don't understand why some men think its ok to put women down because of these little things.. He should really look at the bigger picture and be happy everything is going well so far! Do not feel bad this is definitely not your fault! If he doesnt, you love your princesses as much as you can! They are a blessing

You are with him! You have his twins and he is having a issue. He needs to snap out of it and look at everything in front of him. Not stuff from your past that takes time to fix. He needs a ass whooping!! I'm sorry Hun.

@babyrossmommy, that's why he's still oissed off at me. We haven't even made love or anything. Nothing. And it hurts cause he's being like this. I'm trying my best to get through this divorce and stuff and he doesn't understand it was mistake. I've done. And I'm doing all I can to get this shit done.

I just break and cry mainly every day cause nothing is going right with my family nor with him. I have no one to really talk to with them saying it's just my hormones. It's not. I'm actually hurting. I don't know. Then he goes I will get my boy. Like stated not with me. Or something cause that's how I took it.

It's not your fault .. Don't feel bad !

That's not your fault your having girls! That's his sperm! He need to snap out of it!! Did you get the other thing taken care of for him to start over from that

Men choose the sex so it's his fault. What an ass.