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kisharde
Kiah·Мама дочки (9 лет)
Starting to her overwhelmed with the "normal" household chores and such. :/ I get off work and I'm SO exhausted, I just need a nap. Then I see the mess and just want to cry. I like it to be tidy at all times. it's just getting hard to bend down like I need to to pick things up, etc. My bf said he would clean when he gets home. I just feel so guilty and worthless because he works all day in the heat, hardly gets a day off, then has to do household chores when he gets home :/ I know that's just normal adult living, but I think it should be 50/50 or somewhere near that..idk. I feel like he has to do everything now and it makes me feel worthless 😢😢 Sorry vent session. Just sucks holding it all in all the time.
07.06.2016
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kisharde
Kiah·Мама дочки (9 лет)
Yes, lol. it definitely helps to ask because they dont always realize how we feel and how difficult it may be to do things on our own anymore. and it's less stress on you and the baby :) I'm sure he will appreciate your affection in return too. I always make sure I tell him how much I appreciate him and how much it helps me out too. We used to fight about those things a lot because I wasn't approaching those issues the right way(mostly bitching and nagging lol), now we hardly ever fight and things actually get done. it's definitely a relief. @godsjoi
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godsjoi
Joie·Мама двоих (8 лет, 13 лет)
Yes me too! I hate asking for help. But he went downstairs and cleaned the whole kitchen, which is like a need for me. The kitchen should always been clean! If nothing else lol. So I'm gonna give him lots of hugs and kisses 🤗 @kisharde
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kisharde
Kiah·Мама дочки (9 лет)
@godsjoi,
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kisharde
Kiah·Мама дочки (9 лет)
Aww. It happens. I've done the same thing. I've always been one to never ask for help, but lately I have been because it just gets too much trying to do everything on your own. It also makes for less fighting. Hopefully he is helping you though, you deserve it :)
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godsjoi
Joie·Мама двоих (8 лет, 13 лет)
I just unleashed on my husband. Exactly what you said lol. He disappeared downstairs. I think he's cleaning 😓
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kisharde
Kiah·Мама дочки (9 лет)
@tecia1, yes, it really is, especially in the later stages. I had a burst of energy for a few weeks and got lots of things done everyday. Now it's completely gone. I'm in pain and just so tired all the time. It sucks! But can't say we won't need it because we definitely won't be sleeping as much when our little ones are here 😊😍😍
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tecia1
Natecia·Мама двоих (8 лет, 10 лет)
i have that same problem. i clean as much as i can and w.e i don't finish my b.f handles when he gets home (on a good day only) pregnancy is a full time job if you ask me
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