have managed to deep clean the house and front porch and back yard hubby pulled weeds and mowed now we are getting baby jaylins car seat put in car and bed set up next to ours ! our two yo is with my mom for a couple more hours so I am sure when she gets home she is going be like um what is all of this and what is going on and why is the whole house moved around lol my biggest anxiety right now is how the two yo is going to do with a new baby, she has a 10 yo brother who is only with us on weekends but I don't think she understands the sister concept lol in the beginning of my pregnancy she would touch my belly and say hi baby but now she comes running to cover up my stomach if its showing at all! if someone touches my belly she smacks their hand and says no lol I'm like what's up is this you being protective or is this you ignoring the fact we having another baby she also been acting out more than usual past few weeks any advice from mamas who have toddlers and a newborn ?!
I live near columbus lol but Im sure you're a wonderful parent! Don't stress...kids work things out themselves
thanks so much @lil_bigmama ! @rmreed I have been thinking we should put a big sis bag together as well ! that's a good idea, like y'all said I'm just going keep talking to her about it and work with her. I'm a stay at home mom in a new city with no friends with kids her age so she don't even know how to act around other kids lol I feel horrible like we have just done everything wrong with her in the social area of life ! I know its just me being crazy and about pop a baby out in a couple weeks but my mind going crazy past couple days and I feel like I should of done more now it's so close its to late lol
Ours is spoiled to! Just make her feel special when baby comes. Im going to do a "big sister bag" and put a new toy in, new jammies, a snack, and some little craft thing in there to give her when she meets baby for the first time (in January lol which is super far away) just so that she doesn't feel forgotten!!
yes I am worried about change I feel like the two yo is in routine and don't like change lol @rmreed I have siblings that I was fine with but see my husband and I really have spoiled her and that's our fault making up for lost time with the ten yo I feel like and we are worried we have just messed her all up and now we are going have pay for it big time lol
I just keep telling my daughter she's 3 that she was going 2 have 2 help me with her brother get bottles of water 4 me or different things & she's doing really well with him
@rmreed, well we should have a play date some time girl ! haha thanks for the encouragement !