Npr. But my brother is in jail an his fiancé told my mom she won't ask her sister for money cause she has a kid to raise…

My in laws have decided that now that we've got a month til we're due to have our first child, they need all this money from us. Uhhh no. That's not how this goes. Unfortunately people don't think about anyone but themselves and what is in their best interest. Just brush it off, that's crazy! I couldn't imagine why someone would ask a ready to pop pregnant woman for ANYTHING! 😒

@darianweaver, Ikr. Like he had so many times to ask for help an never has. I'm the youngest of 3 an I'm more of an adult that he is. Like he expects everyone to run to his aide he has a 6month old an he does this like he doesn't think about anything. Like if I had $6,000 I wouldn't give it out with a baby coming I'd use it for her cause diapers aren't cheap lol

That sounds so much like my husband's brother and his wife! He's a few years older than us, they have a 2 year old and a 2 month old, and they're constantly asking everyone else for help! But the crappy part is that they're handed everything because of those kids. Either my in laws help or my sister in law's mom helps. We're never even OFFERED help. IF my husband and I need help, we try not to ask. We're adults. Some people never grow up. You need to worry about your little family and your baby, not everyone else!

@darianweaver, exactly!! Some people never learn to grow up

omg no kidding! my sister had the nerve to ask me to ask my husband for 1000 so she could pay some bills! she bar tends in a very busy bar and makes at least 200 a day and her boyfriend keeps borrowing $ from her and not paying her back so now she needs to borrow. When I was working I borrowed her $ cuz she always pays back when she says she will so that's not even an issue but I have 3 kids and I'm pregnant and my husband is the only one working now. Don't ppl use their heads????

My MIL is always asking my husband to borrow $ too. smh, they look at him like a damn atm!