Just talked to my mom which is usually pleasant, until she decides to force her opinion on me. I have no issue with…
Just talked to my mom which is usually pleasant, until she decides to force her opinion on me. I have no issue with people telling me how they feel or what they think, but don't press me because I do not fold. My SO decided that when we go to the hospital to deliver the baby, we aren't going to tell anyone until a couple hours after the baby is here maybe not until the next day to be frank. We want that bonding time, we don't want a bunch of calls and texts from people. I'm not sorry about that. My mom says that people may feel a way about that, personally my friends aren't defensive and want what's best for me. I know his family won't care. Anyone who knows me personally knows I'm not meant spirited and I wouldn't intentionally leave someone out, but I'm the one pushing out a baby and I will have my time with my SO and our baby before a bunch of people show up. The difference between my mother and I is I'm not fake, I tell it like it is and I'm real, if people want to feel a way that is their own doing. You control your feelings and I won't babysit them. I'm always going to do what I feel is best for myself and my family.
Desaray·
В ожидании первенца
I understand how you feel it's a moment for you and you SO to share what you two created together. I like to be private with my personal life and I don't like family and friends all in my business and I learned its best that way. I already worn my mom about pics on social media when baby is born I told her it's not happening and I don't care who feels any type of way about it.
Sari·
Мама дочки (6 лет), беременна (23 нед.)
Yes! I'm so personal, if I told my best friends I know out of respect they wouldn't call/text non-stop because they know how I am. But family can be intrusive and I don't really let them know my personal business because then they feel like they have a right to an opinion or say. My mom is so persistent and I'm not beat lol, I've been on my own since 17... raised myself and I turned out to be a strong woman. There's not breaking me when I have my mind set. @desi720
Desaray·
В ожидании первенца
Don't let them do what your doing for you and your family. Screw anyone else.
Sari·
Мама дочки (6 лет), беременна (23 нед.)
I think what she really meant was she would feel a way! Lol cause' my mans family isn't intrusive. My best friends know me better than anyone and wouldn't harass me. I love my family but I've learned over the years it's best to keep my personal life away from them. @cubanese
Sari·
Мама дочки (6 лет), беременна (23 нед.)
Same here and I get annoyed with my mom cause' she will talk shit about someone and hang with them or ask them for a favor...... I'm like where they do that at? Not over here. I love her I do and I wouldn't be here without her, I have respect for her but I don't respect her as a person, if that makes sense. @cubanese
Sari·
Мама дочки (6 лет), беременна (23 нед.)
Amen to that! @desi720
Sari·
Мама дочки (6 лет), беременна (23 нед.)
I can't girl 😒 @cubanese
Courtney Warner·
Мама двоих (4 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего
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Sari·
Мама дочки (6 лет), беременна (23 нед.)
It's my choice though. I'm only allowed two people and I'm not going to have my mother there just because it'll make her feel bad. The babies godmother/my best friend and my SO will be there. I'm a really personal person and there's nothing wrong with that. Everyone is different. @alana_sunshine
Sari·
Мама дочки (6 лет), беременна (23 нед.)
I understand all points of views, but I'm not close to my mother for good reason. Every relationship is different, I wish we were close but her being the way she is doesn't allow for that. @alana_sunshine I would be okay with my child wanting to have that experience with just her husband if that's what she wanted. I don't believe in doing things because I have a sense of obligation, I do things because I truly want to. I think it would be worse to have her there and not really want her there because my aura would show that.