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Danielle
Danielle
Мама сына (12 лет), беременна (28 нед.)

So my "donor" finally got mad and showed his true colors. I asked did he plan on coming to the hospital, his reply " No…

So my "donor" finally got mad and showed his true colors. I asked did he plan on coming to the hospital, his reply " No because you don't want to be with me, I hate you bitch, don't contact me until he's born for a paternity test and I never wanted you anyway."...I'm hurt only because he's so immature he doesn't realize it's about the baby, not his feelings toward me. He has not once asked about my baby. Also I'm confused because last week it was I love you. I think he's mad that in 7 months I have made one trip to see him but we aren't together so why should I contact you unless its regarding my child.

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babyjjsmommy

babyjjsmommyМама сына-младенца

You're doing the right thing! If he was to change later on down the road and you wanted to change your child's last name, you could. But right now it's better to just keep it yours so that he doesn't have automatic rights! Good luck with everything!

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augustmama

DanielleМама сына (12 лет), беременна (28 нед.)

@babyjjsmommy, exactly I had no contact with him the first 5 months and it was better that way. I plan on blocking his # and his name won't be on my birth certificate. My son and I are better off without him.

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babyjjsmommy

babyjjsmommyМама сына-младенца

Girl I went through that, it's so pathetic. All mine wanted was to keep in contact with me and to be with me, never gave a shit about the baby. He's been blocked out of our lives since I was early in pregnancy. Not on the birth certificate either. You don't need that drama, you're going to have your hands full with that precious baby!

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