So my "donor" finally got mad and showed his true colors. I asked did he plan on coming to the hospital, his reply " No because you don't want to be with me, I hate you bitch, don't contact me until he's born for a paternity test and I never wanted you anyway."...I'm hurt only because he's so immature he doesn't realize it's about the baby, not his feelings toward me. He has not once asked about my baby. Also I'm confused because last week it was I love you. I think he's mad that in 7 months I have made one trip to see him but we aren't together so why should I contact you unless its regarding my child.
@babyjjsmommy, exactly I had no contact with him the first 5 months and it was better that way. I plan on blocking his # and his name won't be on my birth certificate. My son and I are better off without him.
Girl I went through that, it's so pathetic. All mine wanted was to keep in contact with me and to be with me, never gave a shit about the baby. He's been blocked out of our lives since I was early in pregnancy. Not on the birth certificate either. You don't need that drama, you're going to have your hands full with that precious baby!
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
AF due 29th, anyone else?
Hi all AF is due 29th Sept for me feels like forever away. Has anyone tested yet or when do you plan on testing x
Transgender children
So I just learned that in my kids school district (my kids aren't in school yet my oldest will be starting kindergarten next September) there are twin boys who identify as girls. They are 5 years old. What's your opinions on this matter given they are 5!!! I don't believe that at that age they really understand the whole thing. So the entire school had to take a course on how to handle transgender children. For example they can't say girls go this or boys do that. What are...
Starting TWW. Anyone else?
I had a stillborn daughter at 38 weeks this passed Nov. This is my second month ttc. (Last month we only tried for like two weeks though). My last and only pregnancy, I got pregnant the first month of ttc so I hope it's quick this time again.
You're doing the right thing! If he was to change later on down the road and you wanted to change your child's last name, you could. But right now it's better to just keep it yours so that he doesn't have automatic rights! Good luck with everything!