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missing411user
Need someone to talk to..We live with our inlaws temporarily till my husband gets out of college next year.. My mil gave us the guest bedroom for the nursery and so we have it decorated and everytime I put something somewhere she moves it to a different place and decorates it herself and it's not out of kindness it's out of spite and then if she buys me something and I have multiples and I don't use the one she got she gets angry for instance I picked out a crib set and my mom bought it and I'm using that one and she also bought me one without asking and now she's mad because I'm not using it.. I had all the baby's clothes put away nicely and I washed all 0-6 month clothes and the rest I put away and they still have tags she ripped them all out and threw them in the baby's laundry basket so now I have to wash them. She's acting like this baby is hers and she makes it sound like its her baby when she's talking to her friends I'm getting so mad!!!!!!
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cherry615

Omg my mother in law used to be like that it was so annoying she still tries to do it but we just ignore it and do what we want as parents ... It's your child not hers she'll get over it

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cherry615

Omg my mother in law used to be like that it was so annoying she still tries to do it but we just ignore it and do what we want as parents ... It's your child not hers she'll get over it

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desi720

If she agrees with you two living there she has to come to terms with it being your space and your baby. I only imagine if she is that way now how worse she will get when baby comes. My mil is nice but I imagine she would be the same way if I lived with her, it would be hell. Talk to you husband as much as you can about everything that's bothering you. So he is aware and doesn't have to choose sides.

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raisinghazel

that's the downfall of living in other people's house. you don't want to be rude to them but you feel disrespected. let hubby talk to her and let her know she HAS to back off. you don't mind the help but she's going over her boundaries. he needs to keep reminding her of this

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karennn

@waylonsmommy252, I understand. But she should understand too, it's your child and regardless she needs to respect your space

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missing411user

I feel bad because it's her house so I feel like I can't say anything @karennn

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karennn

I would tell her she's doing the most. Tell her how you feel and that the baby is yours and you do things your way not hers. Or get your husband to try to talk to her

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