Does anyone else feel really alienated now that you're pregnant? I guess in my case most of my friends even at 29 are still single... Not even in relationships... Much less getting married or having a baby. I guess it just feels like my social life has gone down the tubes..! I think they figure if I can't drink at all of these events I just won't be interested... Which kind of has me reevaluating my friendships in general because it's kind of pathetic that seriously everything revolves around that.. !! The only friends I have that have really been there for me lately are a lot older than me, with kids!
I am expecting my second child at 24 my hubby is 30 and it is the same with us all of our friends are unmarried and only one even has a child but they still go out all the time due to having someone to always watch his son. So we are the only ones that always have our kids.
I have 2 friends now that I've had my daughter, but it's well worth it. Being a mom shows you who your real friends are.!
Hmm thanks guys! @newbiemama I have the same exact attitude.. The baby far outweighs anything else I feel it's just lonely sometimes! And my husband has to work nights so that's hard too. @kenitra that is an awesome idea. I will check it out for sure. Im also due in October!!!
Some of my friends already have kids, but most didn't start until around 30 (or later, or still not yet!). I know the first ones felt that way though. I still invited them to everything even after the babies came, just in case. It will get better! Also, you should join a Mom's Group. You can find them for your area on Facebook and Big Tent. And they will put you in a group who's babies are due around the same time as yours. I've already joined a few and I'm not due until October!
I feel the same way. Now that I am almost a mom, no one wants to hang out with me or see me anymore. I feel alone at times(friend wise) because I've been neglected but then I realized my baby boy is almost here and I start to not care anymore because he's way more important.
Hi
I am into my 15 week now
But since last two days am not having good feeling....I just feel something is wrong inside wid d kid...all my symptoms r too less
Morning sickness is gone....Metallic taste of my tounge is also less....and I feel pain in my abdoman twice or thrice which is very minor though
What should i do i am very confused
Already have gone through 5 scans because of changing gynec
Just feel that untill i hear the heartbeat or see my kid i wont b ok....got sleepless nights
I wish I knew my baby's gender already even though I have a feeling it's going to be a boy 🙈 I just want to be reassured! Has any of you mommies guessed the gender of your baby right? Mine is just a gut feeling that I'm having a boy 😍👣
I guess sharing my personal info on here means having it used against me in a personal disagreement yes I was raped and no you have no right to use my daughter against me as a personal jab
being on bed rest for preterm labor kind of sucks. I never had any problems with my first son besides getting really fat. but I feel like I can't do anything. #1 its way to painful for me to even do small things #2 I feel like our roommates and everyone else just looks at me like I'm lazy.. :P #3 I feel so helpless. .. doctor said no going for walks. no sex. no cleaning. no nothing. just have to be in bed or on the couch.
Hello I am knew here. Im looking to make some new friends on here. My sister told me about her experience and meeting a new friend whom she feels like she has known forever. I am married and I work from home. I am also a college student. I have two boys and they are the best.
@a.claypool13 I completely agree!! I think it's a good thing even though it's hard temporarily. @bugmama glad it's not just me! Lol