@lynnx1800, he wasn't there he was born he went to eat in the cafeteria and missed the whole thing which is probably just as bad. when he signed the birth certificate he left my name out so my son doesn't have my last name. I have to pay to get it added on.

@blanca_boo,

Don't get me started on jobs for our daughters birth he didn't even try to take off. He never even told his boss about me being pregnant and when he did tell the boss the day I was in labor his boss offered days off and he went to work anyways and missed the signing of the birth certificate.

@lynnx1800, Its seriously so annoying can't stand when they try and do that. like I'm not going to let you take him when you show no interest and put your job first. don't get why they are like that adds so much stress.

Yes that's exactly how he is when he comes he always wants to have a say so but is never involved we're in the hospital now and he came up here once for an hour.... It seems like he got in trouble by his gf for coming too. @blanca_boo

@lynnx1800, yes and they still feel like they have a voice like you aren't around you don't take care of him you have no say. and he's already 10 months doesn't know who he is anyways.

It's starting to seem like it won't click... Shes a little over a month and all the time he seen her doesn't even equal up to 20 hours. 😔 it's stressful @aniyahsmommy0403

well pretty much you're a single mom. but it's okay some of the best kids are raised by single moms. he may come around eventually.. it doesn't click with some boys.. not until they turn into men.

He comes around every few days for a hour or two. No parenting help. No financial help. Just there when he feel like it. @aniyahsmommy0403

other parent isn't invovled or helping at all.