every time my sil comes over, she's always looking for my baby boy and when I let her gold him she always says, "oh here's my baby!" and she's always near him and treating him like it's her baby..... it's bugs me so bad.... I understand this is her little boy's first cousin but it just makes me feel so uncomfortable..... and she's always buying him stuff..
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Advice please ? Long story... I'm getting married in April we decided no kids other than our own two and my niece And nephew as would end up more kids that adults and it would Cost so much more plus wanted parents to have a day/night to enjoy themselves. Anyway my "maid of honor" ( hasn't done much to help but cause me stress) has 5 kids her youngest will be around 5 months old she's breastfeeding him and keeps telling me she is gonna try and express ect... but I know she has no intentions of doing that and I worry she's gonna put me on the spot the day before and say he won't take a bottle (cos she wouldn't have tried) so she either can't come or has to bring him. I'm spending a lot of money for her dress, hair make up food ect... so deffo don't wanna be let down. But it's not just her that's got kids the ushers have kids and we said no kids. Now I know it's different as she's feeding him but I dunno what to do!? Do I say she can bring him (if my oh agrees too) or do I say she can't. This all sounds so awful when I read it but there will be two other guests that will have newer baby's than that coming and they arnt bringing them. The biggest thing is she's just not talking to me about any of this she's ignoring my messages and not making contact with me. But she's spoken to a friend about it who told her to talk to me and be honest about it all! Torn tbh as she's already not coming on my hen but still hasn't told me this!!! If she just came to me and said look I'm feeding my baby I don't wanna bottle feed him so either he comes or I can't I'd be happier she's being honest rather than dragging it out making out she gonna try and express. I don't expect her to I said it's down to her it's her baby. May I add that we fell out a while ago as she wasn't bothering with me ect any way we made up and I asked her be part of the wedding again so she could have said then I can but il have a baby then, but she didn't she just said it will be fine il sort out. So stressed ?
Ok, so my friend is wanting to get pregnant but..... Her fiancé does not want kids, at lease for another 3-5 years he said... so she came up with the idea to have me pee on a stick for her and show it to him so that he’ll be comfortable with not wearing a condom and finishing in her.. basically the whole idea is to make him think she’s pregnant already...... so I do this favor for her or should I tell my girl to chill? He and my husband are friends through us and he’s going to invite him over tonight and run it by him...
Ok so there's this girl that won't leave my man alone... She's a crazy ex and I want to know what I should do.... It's like she does thing purposely to taunt me and I can't beat her ass bcuz I'm pregnant... No matter what he does our says to her she won't stop.... This is her...I swear y'all it's taking everything in me not to get her beat tf up!!?
Will your Mom be in the delivery room? My mom made it sound like she was gonna be in the delivery room when I give birth, and quite frankly, I would just like it to be me and my fiancé. It's our first, and I want to share that special moment with just him. I don't want to hurt her feelings, and I know this is something she would really like to be a part of. So I feel bad telling her no.
Keora Willis·
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Yay! Mission accomplished! Lol you did all the work 😊 Go mama bear :) lol @lilbabyboy16
Madison·
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she's totally chill with it and apologized. it does feel good. I gotta get my intimidating mama bear on hahah. I give credit to you. without your help I don't know if I would've been able to do it. thanks so much!!! =) Oh I won't some people need to know what needs to go down @deafmama16
Keora Willis·
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It's scary standing up someone even in laws but gotta admit it feels good don't it? @lilbabyboy16 😊 stay strong mama and proud of you. Don't let anyone run you over ok?
Madison·
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@deafmama16, I just texted her... I'm kinda scared to see what she will say
Keora Willis·
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Texting isn't going to help but does have proof that you stood up too her so whatever make you feel comfortable also it's best to speak of the problem sooner regardless of the drama that may come with it because if you hold your tongue for so long the problem will remain family or not no one should tell you and your so what to do with your child. You both need to experience parenthood with each other so MIL got to back off and only help when needed same goes to anyone else. If they don't like it than there's the door. @lilbabyboy16
Madison·
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@deafmama16, alright thank you so much mama!! =). I was having troubles with my SO mom telling me and him what to do with our kid and I told I was going to talk to her if she kept doing it and he said don't because it'll cause problems but to tell him and he would talk to her. should I do the sane worth his sister or should I text her and tell her?
Keora Willis·
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Yeah I will cut her real quick now she got her son confused and it would make me feel iffy as if she planning to take your child somehow someway....you must correct her ASAP and let your little cousin knows also that your son is YOURS. Don't be afraid to speak up 😊 @lilbabyboy16
Madison·
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my SO and his cousin were all "no that's Maddy's baby" I just looked at her. she was sitting in a chair with her back towards me so she didn't look or say anything... @deafmama16
Madison·
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@deafmama16, yeah I was thinking somewhere around those lines.. my SO's little cousin was hold my baby and my Sil's little boy goes up and to him and says "that's mama's baby" that part sketched me out..
Keora Willis·
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No matter how you say it she will still feel some type of way but don't be afraid to put your foot down somethings like "hey I don't mind you coming by to see my baby but please refrain from kissing him so much and calling him your baby it make me feel very uncomfortable." @lilbabyboy16 if she takes it the wrong way or not listen to you than you have every rights to tell her to leave. You're the mother and that's your child you're just being protective of your son
Madison·
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@deafmama16, how do I tell her without being rude?
Keora Willis·
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Be real with her and tell her @lilbabyboy16 she needs to know and respect you and your son.
Madison·
Мама сына-младенца
@deafmama16, how do I do that?
Keora Willis·
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Cut it real quick
Madison·
Мама сына-младенца
oh and she's kissing him