Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
Make your own breakfast! At what age do you think a child should be making their own breakfast? I have a 10 year old and I think he is perfectly capable of making himself breakfast. It doesn't take rocket science to put some waffles into the toaster, or microwave some pancakes. My husband insists that he needs to have breakfast made for him because if we left it up to him he wouldn't eat enough and it would take him forever.
Am I wrong for telling my Bd that because we not Married my baby don't have to have his last name? He really got mad and told me I was project n ignorant. Crazy part is I was thinking about giving my baby his middle and last name
Is it wrong of me to make a fake fb and see if my ole man is cheating? Stuff happened and he hasn't been staying here... and he is talking to the girl (me.) But he doesn't know it's me.... he is lying saying I cheated on him, and that my name is jule, and clearly it's lacy. And he only got with me bc I was a good mom.... but just yesterday he came and stayed with me, we had sex all night... he is telling me one thing, and her (me) another... lol I'm thinking on just walking away... and yes I'm 24 weeks pregnant with his child.
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@haiydensmomma, Man, that sucks. This is super long. Lol. Sorry. Just wanted to share my experience. My cousin went through the same exact thing recently. The BD wanted her to have an abortion. Didn't want to tell anyone, pay for anything, help her out, etc. The first time they went to court he had hrly visits due to her breastfeeding and baby being to small for overnights. The courts really didn't see any reason the father shouldn't be in the child's life. They actually frown upon any parent who refuses to allow a parent/child relationship. That part will look bad on you in court. Him telling you that you need to speak to his mom or sister will look bad on him in court. It shows he is not willing to communicate and how will you co-parent that way. Now, you don't have to allow him at the hospital or to sign the acknowledgement of paternity or birth certificate. So, that will be his first step in court. He first has to prove paternity. But once he does it's fair share in court. You have to prove how unfit he is with hard evidence from now until forever. Don't give him any reasons to prove you that way. The courts would prefer that y'all could come to an agreement in custody with out them having to interfere. I see that being unlikely if he has to have his mom for everything. So just be prepared in advance. Good luck.
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