yes! I wouldn't be able to in anyone else's house like that either! creepy.

Nice we can't do it anywhere but our room because the bathroom here is to small and right next to the grandfather's room. Plus it's not my house, to weird. @michellevaldez4750

I hate feeling like the only one who cares about the kids wellbeing!

:'( that is sad. I hope you can figure something out cuz it doesn't seem like your husband notices how important it is!

Yes it would then my babies wouldn't be yelled at for being kids or told to constantly be quite. My son's entire personality is changing, he's becoming closed off and distant because of this. I refuse this situation much longer.

omg mine is like that too! like wtf? so we go into the bathroom lol. Now that they're in school he stops home during the day but once summer vacation starts it will b back in the bathroom or the garage lmao!!

Exactly men are idiotic sometimes. My husband thinks I should have sex with him on his days off umm nope our son is in our bed and our daughter is asleep in a pack n play at the foot of the bed. Hard enough to get them both to sleep all night not risking waking either of them up, especially when I'm not in the mood or have the energy. @michellevaldez4750

Right. And I'm the same way, I don't ask my husband for much at all, he does work hard and so when he isn't working I never expect him to be home, that's not his personality anyway, he's a people person and lives to be out riding his motorcycle or at friends houses. and I'm a sahm too so I don't mind but you should have your own home to be a sahm in!!! ghat would make all the difference!

His grandfather gives him the easy way out. Told my husband his days off he should be allowed to do what he wants since I'm a stay at home mom. I should have the kids 24/7 which I do even when he's off. It is messed up. My two year old asked me yesterday why I'm crying so much anymore. He said you hurt mommy. Of course I lied I'm not about to tell my son what's going on. @michellevaldez4750

I haven't been able to walk around my house comfortable in 4 years cuz he has his dad here. He was going to sleep on the couch for a few weeks while he looked for a place. He built a bedroom in our basement, he doesn't come upstairs often but I never know when he will so I have to be decent all the time. and then my husband has the nerve to ask me why I don't sleep naked! like wtf??? cuz I cant!

My husband is very selfish like that too! If it doesn't affect him he does not care :( so messed up!

f that! If he doesn't have to listen to your plea to move I wouldn't give a shit how he feels about having to be the only one working! for real.

That's what I've been trying to tell my husband but his life hasn't changed except he drives further for work. Everything else is the same. But he is insistent that I get a job after I'm cleared by the Dr. Taking it a day at a time and I leave the house after breakfast and don't come back til it's time for hubby to wake up. Most days are spent at the park, raining days we drive around looking for places. Once hubby leaves we stay in the room til bath time then bed. @michellevaldez4750

That really sucks! daycare is so expensive too. A lot of times it's not even worth having the extra income just to pay for child care :(

yes! Idk how you're still dealing with that :( ugh you poor thing! and your kids too, they can't even have fun without you having to constantly be on them about shit.

I have to go back to work after this baby because we aren't making it now with what he makes and he refuses to move back to Kentucky even though we can get assistance while I'm trying to find a job. Living with his grandfather is easy for him but is really hard on me. Kids and I see him for an hour a day and his days off he sleeps all day and stays up all night. He then wonders why the kids don't want anything to do with him. @michellevaldez4750

I am going to have to get a little part time job after baby comes so I have spending $!!

I'm right there with you! although I've just accepted it. After 10 years I already know things will never change and I like being responsible and spending time with the kids. I have something to be proud of :) I do appreciate the fact that my husband works and gives me $ to pay the bills. I wish he'd be a little more helpful with other financial things like clothes and extras considering he asked me to quit my job and let him work more hrs but not really anything I can do about it :(