4xmeislove
kelsey harris
i feel like i shoudnt be a mom, i get overwhelmed to fast, scream at my boys over nothing, get super frustrated over nothing, even spank them for like nothing or over little things, i swear im never happy and always tense and its hurting my kids, making them misbehave, and screwing up my marriage. everyone tells me i need to do this or that but i dont know what to do anymore i know im horrible when i act the way i do i dont know how to change or if i even can anymore :( please help i just wanna be able to vent to my husband and him not say stupid comments or hurtful ones and be the mom i thought i would be
7.9 лет
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i may just have to if i want to change anything in life
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i may just have to if i want to change anything in life
see a therapist! I do every other week and I love it and it helps so much! it's great to have someone to listen and have someone with an unbiased opinion of you or your life
it doesnt help his family has said over and over that i cant do it and he has made his comments about it too
thanks mommas :) i do have post partum depression for sure, i had depression when i wasnt pregnant and the hard part with counseling is that i have other issues that i should be going for with my hubby. ive tried walking away, i cry really hard over it some days i just dont know what else will help my hubby doesnt really have patience for it but we have other problems too.
I can be like that I don't spank them but,I have similar ways when they misbehave take a deep breath and think about what they are doing is it serious enough to yell or get mad and spank them? or are they just simply being kids who need to be redirected, if it needs time out have them stand facing the wall for a few minutes and tell them what they are doing wrong ,its not worth losing a family or upsetting the kids listen to then ask them why they are doing it if its something they shouldn't do tell them to stop please
Momma you shouldn't feel this way. You just had a baby girl, so have you thought about the possibility of PPD? I'm sure you're the best mom those babies have. You shouldn't be too hard on yourself. 😘
Have you tried counseling you could just have an imbalance
Maybe look into some counseling, it really does help. And always know that you're never going to be a "perfect" mom because that just doesn't exist, but your children don't care if you're perfect, you're their mom and they're always going to love you. Sometimes when they frustrate you, it's best to walk away and have a good cry or some alone time.